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2:02 pm Monday, 20th August, 2018

The month of August is Peach Month, so we are coming up with plenty of hot ways to honour the peachiest part of the body...the booty.

Declared ‘hot, emotionally charged, and intimate’ all at once, a little bit of punishment is becoming the ‘brand spanking new’ way to give a whole lot of kinky pleasure. So slip into something slinky, bend over our knee, and let us administer some derrière delight!

All Hail the Great Gluteus Maximus!
Spanking is appealing for a variety of reasons: some like the dominant and submissive elements whilst some spankers and spankees alike simply love the sensations. Your bum cheeks are packed chock full of nerve endings and are close neighbours to your sexy sweet spots - the scrotum and the vulva. A few timely blows can send intense sensations rippling through the skin to those areas resulting in a very tasty thrill.

Don’t Rump Them the Wrong Way
So how do you ask for a spanking - or to give a spanking without freaking out your partner? Whether you want to give or receive, simply broach the subject as something you would like to try. Giving your partner a few wallops to that tasty tuchus during your next doggy session is probably not the best approach without talking about it first!

Bottoms Up
As for how to start exploring this new cheeky fun, there is more than one way to flog your partner when they’ve been naughty. Pick a position that is comfortable for you - lying across the lap, standing against a wall, on all fours, leaning over a chair - there is even sex furniture designed specifically for spanking games! Choose your weapon — the hand, a paddle, a flogger — the possibilities are endless when it comes to a bit of Badunkadonk punishment!

Posterior Pleasure
Start exploring gently, until you become used to the situation. The fleshy part of the rear end is the best place to begin. Communication is the key again, learn to read your partner’s body and decipher if those whimpers are from ecstasy or regret. The backs of the thighs can be more painful and love-tapping the genital area is a move to avoid in the beginning until your experience becomes more advanced. Other areas to avoid for safety include the backs of the knees, the tailbone and the spine. Use common sense and perhaps even stick to the sweet spot where the bum and upper thighs meet.

Hotter Hindquarters
An erotic spanking should be…well…erotic! Mix up the pleasure/pain factor with some sensual caresses to that moneymaker. Get creative and kinky with some genital or anal play and maybe some hair tugging if that’s your thing. 😉

With a little patience, and by mastering your technique, it is possible to orgasm from a naughty spanking alone!

So what do you think? Are you a spanker or spankee? And does it turn you on? Share with us in the comments, cheeky!

M x



Comments
11:08 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

if its cheeky, it must be good? who can read all this, no time for this type of reading. pix are ok; u decide in seconds if the pic appeals to u. so add the pix & seve everybodys time?

11:09 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

I wana join...what so ever....

11:16 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

😰😰😰😰😰

11:17 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Yes 

11:28 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

You should have included a Government health warning about addiction. Spanking is like eating Pringles. I found this out 48 years ago and look at my profile now !!!

11:37 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

I'm both a spankee and spanker and truly enjoy both with a female partner.


11:46 am Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Run two fingers up and down spine circle erogenous zone at base of spine ocassionally slide flat of hand up and down crack massagingpussy.

12:55 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Enjoy receiving more than giving

12:56 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Spankee or spanker 

1:14 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

An experienced spanker!! Anyone need a good spanking or more???!!

1:14 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

I'm both a spankee and spanker and truly enjoy both with a female partner.

1:16 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Any females out there wanting a good spanking?

2:52 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

I like old men wit good big mouths and even no teeth making out wit her me deep n long with lots of tongue
Feels soooo good that way 

3:06 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

I like ASS and the hole. I like to explore the ass outside and inside. The hole

4:28 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Hola cómo esras

4:29 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

I love 

4:48 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Buenas tardes maria,
Podrias traducirmelo porfavor!!!

Muchas gracias

4:58 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

I prefer the over the knee position for both giving and receiving. The contact it brings establishes a bond between the spankee and the spanker. Brings them emotionally closer together.

5:20 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Equal opportunity spanker here, love to put a glow on any willing set of cheeks! 

7:21 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

How many women like being spanked with a belt and on the clit?

7:22 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Recommend a 2 minute wait between blows, lets the pain subside but the nerves stay alart. After 3 or four use a different sensation....dangle cold steel chains over the nerves, use a pinwheel, or just a plain olfd feather...one sub loved a tennis ball rolled over the sweet spot.

7:33 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

I'll remember this advice.

9:35 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Love it 

9:55 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

Love spanking her inner thighs and letting my fingers slide slowly over her hot and wet pussy. Might stick 2 fingers inside her hot cunt and play with her clit and make her gasp as she cums loads and begs me to fuck her bareback and shoot my load deep inside her.

11:19 pm Tuesday, 21st August, 2018

My girl loves a good spanking, enough to pink her bottom nicely. She enjoys mixing with nice caresses of the stinging  area and then further hand paddling. I also mix in the pinwheel and feather teasing. Lots of moaning and sometimes cursing when I challenge her with particularly noisy slaps.

1:31 am Wednesday, 22nd August, 2018

en castellano

9:17 am Wednesday, 22nd August, 2018

Mmmmm spanking a nice ass is always good if the opportunity arises.. especially good when rose red cheeks and promoted  horny moans 😈😍👐

12:24 pm Wednesday, 22nd August, 2018

Wonderful blog! Love the descriptions and considerations. 
I have always been very fascinated by spanking, without knowing exactly why. This is apparently hard to explain. Maybe it is simply because the butt is our most sexy body part (in my humble opinion anyway).
Although spanking is such a passion for me, I have not acted upon it, until recently. Maybe I have been shy and felt embarrassed by the subject?
Anyway, I want this to change! I am a switch and fancy both the spanker and spankee role. Have some experience as spankee but unfortunately very little as spanker, as my partner do not like it.
I definitely find the otk position most appealing. It is intimate, and the spanker has more control in case the naughty spankee tried to get away 😉

2:25 pm Wednesday, 22nd August, 2018

Hii

12:45 am Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

I like both; sometimes I am much more submissive and other times I am more dominant.  I have been spanked by both men and women and have spanked both as well.  There is something highly erotic about lying across someone's lap, pants or panties pulled down as the spanker rubs my bottom and tells me why I am going to be spanked.  I like the spanker to talk to me the whole time heshe is spanking and a little ass play is always encouraged.  When doing the spanking I like to mix both pain and pleasure to heighten the arousal and intensify the orgasm.

11:54 am Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

Now I need a spanking!

12:27 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

Hii!!

12:27 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

hi how are you

1:11 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

It turns me on like nothing else, and  I mean a real, but-burning spanking. Excuse me, got to change now.

1:56 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

Very nice

2:01 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

I love to be in this program and get bare naked bottom spankings 

2:25 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

I love to be a part of this site. 
Hi, 
This is Kumar Rishi from South Delhi, respecting, caring and and loving ppl, honest and have good mind set towards humanity simple and down to earth 🌎. Always look towards Love and Love. Thanks

2:28 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

Hi

2:30 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

I love to be spanked hard till my arse gets red

3:00 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

I do it sometimes to make her hot and I found she likes it and enjoy l found if you gently slap hips pussy they become more sensitive but the other should not get hurt

3:56 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

I do once in a blue moon 

4:13 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

I am a spankee

4:16 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

Hello Kitty 

8:21 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

yes i like it very much.

8:35 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

You can spank my cock hard

11:22 pm Thursday, 23rd August, 2018

Hi baby 

6:05 am Friday, 24th August, 2018

Hi I'm interested mi sex enjoyed 

6:17 am Friday, 24th August, 2018

I like them both 

6:59 am Friday, 24th August, 2018

😍💏

12:06 pm Friday, 24th August, 2018

Good. Like sessions. Very much a turn on.

12:06 pm Friday, 24th August, 2018

I like......look my profil .....

1:24 pm Friday, 24th August, 2018

Fucking hot 🔥

3:17 am Saturday, 25th August, 2018

I all so join u plz tell me how can

5:43 pm Saturday, 25th August, 2018

Pretty but turns me on

6:17 pm Saturday, 25th August, 2018


Love it both ways 

Tim 

11:50 pm Saturday, 25th August, 2018

Hi 

8:42 am Sunday, 26th August, 2018

He's the spanker and I'm the spankee! I love it and it turns me on so much! 

I also love him pulling my hair. To me I think it's a submissive feeling allowing my man to take control. Restraints are a turn on for me too! He just loves how wet I get as well as the look on my face... 

6:14 pm Sunday, 26th August, 2018

I’m love to be spanked

6:11 am Monday, 27th August, 2018

I like it

3:58 pm Monday, 27th August, 2018

Spanking is an incredibly intimate interaction; on top of which it can lead to lots of other pleasant things.  I have been a spanker for 40+ years.

1:37 am Friday, 31st August, 2018

I love to get a hot spanking

12:16 am Thursday, 6th September, 2018

Ilike it ,I love it , I want some more of it .🌹

4:46 am Thursday, 14th March, 2019

I've been fascinated with spanking as far back as I remember. Just the thought of having my pants and shorts pulled down and out over a woman's lap would make me weak in the knees and the thought of turning a girl over my knees and baring her bottem got me all excited.😈😫😂

4:46 am Thursday, 14th March, 2019

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