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7:24 pm Friday, 17th May, 2013

Am here.....Don't presume to know.

I am sick and tired of guys assuming that I'm here because I 'don't get enough at home.'

No, I don't, but that's my choice. You see, I'd rather not have sex than feel used by someone who treats me like shit then demands and coerces me to have sex because I 'should.' Soley because we are married.

I prefer to save sex for someone who treats me like a person first. So many on here don't get that: women like to be treated well first; sex comes later.

I've confided with a few the extent of 'badness' in my marriage. To most, I simply say, 'it's complicated.' I think that should be enough.

For those of you who really want to know more, talk to me and earn my trust. God knows there's little enough of it in my life.

Yes, I am pissed off here. Just tired of people assuming to know where I'm coming from and WHAT I NEED when they have no fucking idea. MORE SEX won't fix the problem. Understanding people might.

I know what I need and I am getting it. Being here liberates me in a way I never thought possible, and I thank you all (or, some of you) for being here. God, do I sound pissed off enough here? I don't usually let that side of myself show.....Rant done.



Comments
8:00 pm Friday, 17th May, 2013

Why don't you just say what you mean x that's a joke by the way
I know what you mean about the liberating side and we all have our reasons for being here and the people we have met and chatted too which on the whole are fantastic
Dont let people get to you or on your nerves as sometimes I can only assume its frustrating

I wish you the best of luck sifting through to the genuine people and don't forget there are a few out there

Have a pleasant evening and when it winds you up just click off

8:39 pm Friday, 17th May, 2013

This is a sex contact site . Just like us single guys have to put up with single women totally ignoring a well written email , because it's par for the course on sites like these , you have to expect hundreds of emails from randy blokes. The site is what it is , stop moaning about it and use it to get what you want , and dont take everything to heart .

9:19 pm Friday, 17th May, 2013

LOL you are too right, I need to get over it. Just wish the ASSUMPTIONS of why I'm here would just stop. Ask, get to know me.....is all I ask.

9:53 pm Friday, 17th May, 2013

Hi - we do notknow each other but I have complete understanding of where you are coming from. OK - a single male (well single in 6 days actually)but please dont think we are ALL assholes. Some of us are actually hurting as much as you but dont have your flare for expression and perhaps resort to communicating with a blunt instrument (so to speak). Wish we knew each other - personally I would LOVE to be able to talk frankly with a women of your beauty and interlect.

11:34 pm Friday, 17th May, 2013

Well Goddess.
Lets start from the beginning.
Why are you here?
The simple answer is because you want to be here. Whether it is by accident or on purpose, you found the site and decided to indulge in 'Adult Humour'.

And here, My darling, is your adult humour.
With a little poke here, and a little tickle there, I will have you smiling and back to normal.

So, your prescription for a happy time is, Come see me and we can get naked and have some fun.

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12:57 am Saturday, 18th May, 2013

erotic-goddess i can see where your coming from and i know sometimes we just want a quick shag, but it is as you say nice to get to know someone and find out why they are on here and what they like and dislike.
And get to know the persons personality and sense of humour etc and then the sex bit should be easy if wanted by both, and if not then a new friend to chat to about things personal and an all round good egg to have on your side. Some people are fun but you dont always want to shag their brains out!!!!!

1:22 am Saturday, 18th May, 2013

EG gotta agree with Jerry there are some really kind & friendly people on this site who don't think sex is everything.As for the Miss or Mr potato heads you can spot them a mile of 0 friends,0 personalty & always in the chat room asking for sex.To use a line from The Jeremy Kyle Show they should grow a pair & get a job sj xx :-)

6:05 am Saturday, 18th May, 2013

I know it's difficult but you must seek to ignore those shallow types who expect you to be grateful that they've asked you to fuck within 2 minutes of introducing themselves.
If they had the intelligence to use a little insight,they would see that establishing a rapport and friendship with someone and take the trouble to find out more about the personality of the person in question,then ultimately, if that relationship develops into a sexual one, it will be happier and more mutually satisfying. If it doesn't and remains at the " friends only " level, that's fine too.
Sarahjane is correct,there are kind and friendly people on here,so there is no need to feel coerced,look for those who will let things develop naturally.
Love from Fetch xxxx

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