...friends, that is.
I've been around a while now, chat with many men of all ages, backgrounds, and interests. Men are great; I love you! I've found men I can talk to about anything and everything, from how to deal with my latest heartbreak to how to give an even better blowjob. Men, I find, are easy to talk to and fun to flirt with. I've always found it easy to get on with them.
Women, on the other hand, are quite a mystery to me. I find women to be more reserved, harder to get to know, and, if things aren't right, distrustful of me. I AM NOT HERE TO STEAL YOUR MAN!!! (However, you can have mine, if you want him).
Since starting to blog here, I have chatted with a few women, women I would very much like to get to know better. One in particular.
It's funny, they usually start messages to me as 'I am straight, but just wanted to say hi...'
To which, I respond, 'Hi, I am also straight, but would love to get to know you better.'
(How strange, the intricacies and protocols of meeting on a sex site).
We women seem to dance around each other, pretending to not be jealous of our men and special chat (or more) buddies. I know my men friends chat with others (isn't that a given?), but like to think that I am the only winner they have found. I forget that there is a wide variety of women out there, as there is of men, and that necessarily includes wonderful women.
We may have come here alone, but really, I am just like you...at times strong and confident, but also sometimes needy and insecure. I need support just like you do, and if you are like me, there are not many people in the outside world who would approve of your being here.
I am looking for a few good women. Hope to hear from you, anytime.
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4:22 pm Tuesday, 30th April, 2013
Hi. Sorry you're having a hard time 'reading' other women. As someone who has swapped emails with you I am surprised that others would be guarded with you. My problem is I'm an open book! Find it much easier to chat and laugh with other women, especially about men (sorry chaps). |
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4:38 pm Tuesday, 30th April, 2013
I tend to be an open book, too, but in real life have trouble "getting" others, especially women. It's much easier online, where I don't have to try to connect body language with what someone is saying (confuses me horribly, as most people don't say what they show). I find women on here either very nice and fun or particularly guarded. Not that I've had much contact with any, except one.....I'd love more! |
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8:40 pm Tuesday, 30th April, 2013
It's just the same when a guy tries to talk to women as well so you are not alone. It's a bloomin mine field lol |
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9:17 pm Tuesday, 30th April, 2013
I have had many husbands and lovers and many male best friends.I have loved and lost and learn t a lot about life and myself. |
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10:19 pm Tuesday, 30th April, 2013
Hi Eroticgoddess, it makes a pleasing change to read a blog that is inviting to women without it being "I want to get you into bed!" |
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9:57 am Wednesday, 1st May, 2013
Hey, I should also make it clear that I don't limit myself to straight women friends.... |
