Erotic Massage Tips For Stress Relief

Hi guys,

Pretty much everybody loves a good massage, especially after a tough day at work or when the everyday stresses get on top of you. Great sex also has a relaxing effect so, technically speaking, combining the two should have double the impact and be twice as nice. This mixture of the two is known as ‘sensual massage’, and yes, it’s great!

There's a knack to giving a fantastic massage, however, especially an erotic one! Here are some little tricks to wowing with your hands...in more ways than one!

Perfect Prep
When getting ready to give your partner a sensual massage, you need to obtain a few things first. You may want to set the mood with a few candles and some ambient music in the background; this is optional though. Make sure that your nails are trimmed and hands thoroughly clean prior to beginning. Have a bottle of baby oil or massage oil to hand, these come in a variety of aromas, so if you’re feeling extra generous you could cater to your partner’s tastes and purchase one that will particularly tickle their fancy.

Warm It Up
When beginning, have them lay on their front, put the oil onto your hands and rub them together to warm them up a bit as opposed to slapping it straight onto their body. A good start to the massage is to move the palms of your hands across their shoulders and back to get them that bit extra chilled out. Now, during a sensual massage, your hands are not the only tools you have to utilise, your entire body, in fact, can be used to massage them. Oil your torso up and rub yourself up and down on theirs once you feel that they’re getting into the swing of things. Breathing in their ear while whispering horny words can intensify any sensations from the massage.

Take It To The Next Level
Now’s the time to flip them over and get to the fun bits! Caress their oiled nipples and slowly work your way down to their groin area using a mixture of your tongue and hands. Work their upper thigh area with your fingertips and move onto the genitals. Should your partner be a man, with a moderately firm grip, hold the base of his penis with one hand and caress it with your tongue and lips. You can choose to complete your massage with your hands by massaging his member to orgasm or finish him off by treating him to a lip service or getting on top of him and treating him to some mind-blowing slippery sex. For a female partner, from her inner thighs, relocate your fingertips to her clitoris and tease it gently. Depending on how quickly you want her to come, you can switch between this clitoral stimulation and reaching inside with a ‘come hither’ motion of your fingers to find her G-spot or both at once.

Sound good? Treat your bedmate to a fantastic little piece of heaven and see if they return the favour, trust us, it’ll be worth it! What is your favourite way to unwind when you’re feeling stressed? Let us know in the comments below.

M x

• Add Comment
• View Blog