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Hello everyone!

I hope that everyone is enjoying their summer so far, here’s our ideas on how you can enjoy your time out in the sun with maximum sexiness and get some swinging with those poolside drinks.

Got your sea legs handy? Why not try some sea sex then? Swinging cruises are gaining popularity and a good option for anyone who is within a couple. Single males are not likely going to be allowed on as with most swinging events. However fellas, there’s no reason that you actually need to be in a relationship with a woman to be let in. The main thing is that as the ratio of women to men is kept either at even standing or higher.

These cruises aren’t all sex, sex, sex (unless you want them to be of course). During the day you have the obvious of going to visit the local areas where docked, enjoy some adrenaline-packed activities (not necessarily sex, jet skiing etc.) whilst you’re not getting it on. Then you are on a swinging cruise so guessing you want a fair bit of it to be at least sex-related. These cruises will often give the option of seminars on a wide array of subjects such as dealing with jealousy when swinging, finding the G-spot or beginners’ BDSM so not only are these cruises mind-blowingly sexy, they’re educational!

Swinging resorts are also a great option for getting some respite whilst still having a seriously sexy time in the sunshine. If you’re new to them, don’t expect to literally be stepping over people shagging on your way to the pool. Swinger resorts will usually have designated ‘play’ areas where sex is allowed and there is plenty to do ahem whether you’re looking for sex or non-related sexual activities. Parties are in abundance with theme nights and live entertainment.

For the single guys reading this, it may sound all doom and gloom for you in the world of swinging and yes it may be tougher than say a single female or couple but it is still doable. Whilst these sorts of resorts will usually not allow you in on your own, by making some ‘sexy friends’ you can find yourself a lady to accompany you or simply get yourself invited to swinging events more...yes even as a single male.

How to achieve that? Single males are often alienated from swinging events and the like because of the perception of single males which some ‘bad eggs’ have given the rest. Should you be given the privilege of engaging with a couple or female, don’t act like an ass basically. By being a gentleman and respecting the sensitivity of the situation, that this couple may be opening up their relationship to allow a stranger in, there is bound to be a bundle of emotions involved there. By being pushy, acting entitled or asking something totally distasteful like ‘want to fuck?’ you are going to get a bad name for yourself and the rest of your fellow, single males.

Go into these situations with the aim of making friends, get to know them and actually take an interest. Should they allow you the honour of sleeping with them then that is a bonus but unfortunately that cannot be your only goal here. By genuinely trying to get to know them as people and build a foundation of trust, they will be more likely to let you get to know them on that physical level.

Have you ever tried a swinging resort or cruise? Do you have any summer swinging advice for the fellow sexy people that are reading?

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