I feel if we listen and listen well is enough...most of the cpl wish to talk speak out their fantasies, want to make intimate friends though they may or may not wish for real action...In day to day living with the regular contacts we have apprehension to discuss anything intimate because of fear what other person might think and whether we are proper to share our feelings and intimacy...?.but on this platform we don't have such apprehensions as we know that the other cpl is seeking same...hence I feel that listening to people and expressing our self is extremely important .......May be 90% of the time there is a happy ending just by the discusson and no need to take so much trouble..of meeting someone..in todays world everyone want to thrust his ideas and no one wish to listen..but listening remains an art...these are our personal views but very aptly work for us when we think over it.....hope to make new friends and share with them and listen them..not necessarily wish for an action...
