Desires and bi-curiosity

So, to date, all my sexual experience has been 100% straight - I love women and much prefer their company to that of men.  I've never really been "one of the lads" and nor have most of my straight male friends either.

Anyway, a few years ago I had a wonderful relationship with a girl who really pushed my boundaries sexually.  First and foremost she had a bubbly personality and confidence that really lit up any room she walked in to.  Secondly she was amazing in bed and introduced me to many new experiences, even some I didn't think I'd ever either experience or enjoy!

Without going into too much detail, I'll be forever grateful to her for introducing me to rimming, anal play and pegging and we also talked about having a threesome (though it never happened).  I knew she was bisexual and just the thought of her with another girl was a huge turn-on for me but, most interesting was that she got turned on by the idea of a bi-guy joining us and initiating me in a bit of man-on-man fun, with her encouragement and participation.  At the time this really did not appeal to me but as time has passed I find myself wondering what it would be like to play with a couple where the guy was bi or bi-curious.

In addition to this, I consider myself to be slightly sexually submissive inasmuch as I love being told what to do.  So I find myself on this site wondering if there is a local-ish couple, either of both of whom are dominant and where he is bi/bi-curious who could gently introduce me to every-way three-way fun.  I have to state that I don't "fancy" men enough to want to kiss them but the thought of being told to pleasure a guy does really turn me on provided the female is there participating and encouraging.

So I wondered if there were any guys reading this who have been through a similar initiation or couples who have initiated such a one as me in this way?  If so, if you have any advice or guidance you feel able to share I'd very much appreciate it!

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