I was in the chat room the other day and quite a few shall we say 'disputed' swingers seemed to be talking to someone who whispered them.
Now, it's ok to be whispered. Its ok to answer whispers. However, when a huge conversation probably best done in a PM is all done by one person whispering and one person answering in main chat I have to wonder what the object is.
Are they actually being whispered at all? Are they claiming to be whispered to inflame the paranoia of people they're having issues with to make it look like they have the support of others? Are they trying to elevate their popularity by claiming to have their own whispered compliments and conversations?
The new format got rid of whispers and uninvited pm's. That was Utopia for a while.
But now we're back to the old format and the fakes and phoneys have a safe haven yet again.
If anyone whispers me at least ask to pm when you whisper because whispers quite often go astray when the list jumps as people come in and out. That makes me wonder that if someone is really being spiteful and making snide comments in a whisper, why the blatant disregard for discretion and security? Bloody hell.....is it not enough that these muppets are hidden behind a pc and monitor that they have to also whisper stuff too? How brave is that?
We had a great night in chat the other night. Banter, laughs, people arranging meets......not one person moaned about pm's or answered aloud to whispers or threw all the toys out of the pram.
I have a dream. I have a dream that one day this site will rise up and live out the truemeaning of its title: 'the ADULT hub'
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