Are we really how others see us?

life is what we make of it!!!! We can't be bothered by what people think of us as it may drive us to the loony bin!!! life to short enjoy it to the fullest!!!!! I live by a song composed by "Trooper" we're only here for a good time not a long time the sun can't shine every day!!! so have a good timeimg src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

there was an advert on the telly for 50 shades (I think) and it was basically a bloke saying to a woman "stop looking in the mirror , it doesn't matter what YOU think you look like , it's what I think you look like that matters"
so true,
whatever shape, looks, attitude a women has , there is a man too match.
in my entire life I have never sat in a pub and had any "mate" come in and say ...."I shagged this great bird last night , she was so skinny I could get my hands round her waist".
no..no..no.. she either had great tits, great ass, or great sense of humour. remember , blokes are ugly too.img src="imagesadultemoticons017.gif"

there was an advert on the telly for 50 shades (I think) and it was basically a bloke saying to a woman "stop looking in the mirror , it doesn't matter what YOU think you look like , it's what I think you look like that matters"
so true,
whatever shape, looks, attitude a women has , there is a man too match.
in my entire life I have never sat in a pub and had any "mate" come in and say ...."I shagged this great bird last night , she was so skinny I could get my hands round her waist".
no..no..no.. she either had great tits, great ass, or great sense of humour. remember , blokes are ugly too.img src="imagesadultemoticons017.gif"

Aphrodite. Beware of those who need use a Thesaurus in order to try to win you over by using an obscure word like " pulchritudinous " to describe your charm,intelligence and beauty,I doubt if they have ever used it before in conversation.It is a cumbersome and not very attractive sounding word and knowing you,would have thought that you were singularly unimpressed by it.
It reminds me of an article I read some years ago,where a mother wanted to name her baby daughter " Miasma" because she thought it sounded pretty.It was not util her Christening that the true meaning of the word was explained to her by the priest who was to have conducted the Baptism. Miasma is the pungent, foggy haze which hangs over bogs,marshes and swamps. and the priest refused to christen the child with that name ( for which I daresay ,she will be eternally grateful in future years ).
Please do not concern yourself as to how others may see you.Remember that I have had that pleasure and am happy to confirm that all my impressions were decidedly positive ! xxxxx

that first paragraph sounds like medical notes following the current doctrine. ..avoid going to the quaks and they won't have the opportunity to try and tell you off for being 'fat'!

They hate it when they're revving up to give me a good telling off for being a bloater and there's nothing wrong with my blood pressure, I'm just fat!

First, I truly think that people who have got the time and actually face to refer to another person with malicious adjectives are not worthy of my attention. In a way they enjoy putting people down and feeling better about themselves this way. Yes, they may hurt but it is simply because I am a woman and women in general like to feel attractive and we enjoy compliments. Conclusion: I could not care less except for 10 minutes.

I prefer to feed on the good comments. I think everybody here would agree that personality definitely is important on a person. However, I go one step further and I say the whole package is vital. I do pay attention to the looks as it is clear for me that I would be attracted to some people and not others. However, I am sure many people would think of me as average as I don't meet their standards of beauty and it is fair enough. This is a free world anyway and we are each individuals.

Would I like to be complimented all the time? Of course. Will I allow negative comments to bring me down? Unless they are from people I truly truly care or due to a health concerns, not really.