The scenario: you haven't had sex in a week (or so, have to put some sort of time frame on this) so you're ready, but not completely, desperately lacking; there's been a reasonable amount of foreplay but not so much that you're ready to explode. The mood is right, your partner is ready, the timing is perfect.
So my question is for the women: how long does it take you to, er, reach nirvana? Once, twice, five times, or however many is right for you?
And how about DIY...is it sooner, later?
OF COURSE, it all depends on the situation, each time is different, and all that. But in general?
Maybe I'm sadly lacking in my choice of sexually open women friends, maybe it's just that the friends I have (apart from a few here) just don't discuss
1:02 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
I don't think there's much to be gained from comparing notes on this. Whatever works for you is good, and whatever works for other people is good for them too. The problem with discussing this is that unless you claim to require at least 20 orgasms (say) a week, and each exploding within 30 seconds, then somehow you're inadequate in the great scheme of things. If people claim they are at that level, they'll say so because of public peer pressure. Nobody wants to admit they're undersexed on a site like this. (See my blog on "I have a very high sex drive" :-) |
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1:27 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
LOL I don't see it as an under or oversexed thing, just a matter of curiosity! |
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3:10 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
In fact I never *claim* anything. As SS says, it depends who one is with and the dynamic between two people. That's why I always think male claims are a bit daft, and "what I'm going to do to you" comments and mails frankly hilarious. |
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7:28 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
It wasn't me... |
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8:38 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
Not bloomin long at all with someone that i have taken the time to get know making sure as best as possible that we are compatable and have a connection as i do have to feel a connection to a person before i will share such delicious carnal pleasures. To be honest i wouldn't share any intimate mischief with someone unless the switchedturned on my mind as i know full well that unless i feel that connection i will not orgasm. |
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8:49 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
Ooohhhh hell yes Gilli, Sadly i know exactly what you meanimg src="imagesadultemoticons009.gif" |
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8:56 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
Jeez that should have been compatible....Hmm my mind clearly on other things. |
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9:10 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
Eroticg, interesting blog, and whilst I'm in the, 'who your with' corner! kudos to you for broaching the subject! |
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9:20 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
By Jove i think he's got it!! |
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9:59 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
Gillibean really???????????????? |
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10:13 pm Tuesday, 29th July, 2014
Gillibean, Test engineer on his way down to you! img src="imagesadultemoticons021.gif" |
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12:05 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Gillibean! A full day of course! Good grief woman these tests take time. There's the preparation, the equipment to set up and calibrate. Countless exhaustive tests to be conducted in all areas (not just the aforementioned elbow). Refreshments then more testing followed by an in-depth summary and conclusion of test results! It's very tiring but well worth the effort! img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif" |
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1:04 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
At the risk of going off at a tangent slightly.......some of the above responses have only served to emphasize the importance women place on a mental connection with a guy in order to open up sexually. Although I tend to lambast "what I'm going to do to you" mails, I'm willing to concede that some women do get off on that. However, I would liken it to reading a bit of racy fiction. It's no coincidence that most of the people who bought 50 shades of bollocks were women, and that in turn has had a spin-off effect on sites like this: just look at the number of women looking or "doms" or wanting to become "dommes" :-) |
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5:12 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Oops, sorry; did someone say something? I was just busy fantasizing about taking Skebbie over my knee and spanking the hell out of him. |
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6:48 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
(Puts on deep butch voice)........ |
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9:50 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Skebbie, I think if you arrived on luvs doorstep wearing a black bali and holding onto a kalash, it sure as hell wouldn't be a thumb filling her knickers!!!!! img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif" |
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10:04 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Skeb, that mind programming sounds peoper dodgy, especially if a new stair carpet was in the offing or doing a deal on a few ounces of pipe smoking material. ..just think of the mess! |
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10:21 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Curvy: I suppose the sheer volume of my media would prevent me from being viewed as "mysterious". Does this mean that my "mystique" is severely impaired I wonder?? :-( |
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11:19 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
The long (and mostly tedious) 'what I'd do to you' stories always seem like a right waste of time and actually show a lack of imagination. What would happen if they actually followed their own script and the object of their affection didn't actually like what they were doing? Would they actually notice or would they juat carry on regardless? And if they did notice would they be able to think on the hoof of something different to try? |
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11:24 am Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Miss Goodnight ( cough,cough,clears throat ) " Guide me O thou great redeemer,pilgrim through this barren land.I am weak but thou art mighty ,guide me with thy prefect hand " ..my sense of direction is not what it used to me !img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif" |
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12:06 pm Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
I suspect Fetch has had several already before the sun's over the yardarm :-) |
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12:08 pm Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
DrZook: Exactly. I think they have a pre-planned agenda and will attempt to carry it out irrespective of circumstance :-) |
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2:53 pm Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Skebbie! Lol. |
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3:13 pm Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Yeah, sorry Skebbie - I meant to say 'inflicting' fear can be a potent aphrodisiac. |
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5:14 pm Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
I always carry a pair of knee pads in my bag. You just never know when you'll need them. I was a Girl Guide - always prepared. |
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9:31 pm Wednesday, 30th July, 2014
Samuel....I think I am going to take you up on your offer and discuss a few more issues in depth with you! :) :) |
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9:52 am Thursday, 31st July, 2014
I have found that if every thing is right then you will peak as many times as you need to be satisfied. I love playing withteasing my girl until she lets me know it is the correct time to enter. I usually manage to last and take her further than she thought she wantedneeded, but not always. On these occasions I return to tongue and digits or whatever she needs. In short, if your partner and you are in tune enough to admit enoughnot enoughdo this or thator not , you should be satisfied whenever. I think we have all also had times when we just cannot get off, whatever we do and we need to accept those and live the others. |
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1:46 pm Friday, 1st August, 2014
Actually, Liith, I had to hesitate before "liking" your post because unsure whether that would have been an appropriate response. If there was a separate button to indicate I sympathized with someone's situation, then I would have used it. |
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9:20 am Wednesday, 20th August, 2014
.....or England ? :-) |
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2:55 pm Wednesday, 20th August, 2014
.....which brings us back to the sheer potency of raw mystique, which, as we all know, gets all the wrong people coming running ;-) (cough, cough......sherry fumes..........) |
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6:06 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
I can't speak for other men of course, but personally I get great pleasure from giving lots of oral attention to a woman's pussy. I just love the intimacy, the fragrance, and the taste. It's like heaven and the lady has no need to panic about cumming. Just lay back and enjoy it. Surely it must give you some pleasure!!
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9:06 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
I'm a dab hand at screwing, how about you?? The longer the screw the better! |
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9:19 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
Every woman should have a toolkit. .. |
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9:52 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
A well lubricated tool never squeaks! |
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9:58 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
Proper penetrating oil better than wd40, more lubrication. ..
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10:21 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
Lubricates parts other oils cannot reach!! |
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10:30 pm Thursday, 2nd October, 2014
If it ain't rocol it ain't no good!
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12:59 pm Friday, 3rd October, 2014
Time is relative. ..
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2:53 pm Friday, 3rd October, 2014
No rush at all wilf...but there seems to be the idea that it's all about the time it takes rather than how good it is. From what I can see we seem to be in agreement, cos I'm not paying neither!
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