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12:11 pm Wednesday, 12^th February, 2014

During the time I've been here, I've heard it all. Fantasies, life long dreams, and, unfortunately, a lot of judgement.

I don't share my life here with many in the outside world. With only two good friends, actually, friends I trust with just about everything. The rest of the world would probably see me as a sex crazed demon for just being here, I don't want to go there.

What I don't understand is the attitude I sometimes find here that what I want and am looking for is equally wrong.

Is it wrong to want to feel important and special to someone? Here, apparently, it is.

Just as in the outside world, where looking for sex for the sake of sex is seen as 'deviant,' looking for more than that while being here is equally 'wrong.'

For those who think I'm just one who talks and is weird about it all, I'm willing to bet that I've been quite a bit more wild than some on here, and not as out there as others. I am what I am, and enjoy it.

I happen to believe that we all have our own motivation for being here, and that you can and will find what you need at some point.

I also think that a common interest in sex is a beginning point, that, along with a connection of some sort, defines the beginning of a so called relationship. I've lived for 20 odd years with a man who enforced upon me who he thought I should be....enough already with relationships! I'm not asking for pity, understanding, or sympathy. I am asking that you not judge me for wanting what I want.

I want to be around people who enjoy me for me and that I can have fun with. Is it too much to ask? Good frikken grief.

Yes, in a bit of a mood here this morning.

Comments

tt11961	3:38 pm Wednesday, 12^th February, 2014 People are here for various reasons. I find I chat with lots and quickly know who I get on with. A small number develop into good friendships and sometimes meets. When you find someone you enjoy chatting with and meeting it makes it all worthwhile ! The bad experiences I suggest you just shrug off although not always easy.
Luv2sucU	3:56 pm Wednesday, 12^th February, 2014 EG "I want to be around people who enjoy me for me .." You carry on being you! I would much prefer for people to dislike (or question) me for being me than to like (or love) me for being someone I'm not. x
tt11961	5:12 pm Wednesday, 12^th February, 2014 Absolutely agree BBW. Its not a dating site....there are plenty of those. Everyone should still be treated with respect though.
rigger101uk	6:18 pm Wednesday, 12^th February, 2014 EG my daaalink take no notice of those who are not tuned in to your channel. You are here for your reasons and that's all there is to it. The joy of this place (can I call it a place?) is that to a large part it is inclusive and liberated, with space enough for all. It really would be nice though if some left their hangups and preconceptions at the door. But whatever else you do, do not allow yourself to get narked because they didn't. And anyway - where is this ONeils place?
eroticgoddess	7:38 pm Wednesday, 12^th February, 2014 here goes again...... Luv2--most definitely; if they don't like us for who they are, fuck em (or not). BBW--of course I've said it before, but I think it bears repeating. Your reasons are not mine, and I think that judging someone for their reasons is as unacceptable as being judged for being here in the first place by those "out there." As for this not being a dating site....no, it's not, but you know what? my sexual likes may not be (are not?!?) exactly congruent with "mainstream" interests, and as sex is an important part of a relationship, why not look for a match in that category first? As far as the term relationship goes.....isn't agreeing to meet someone more than once the beginnings of one? Whether it goes any farther or not, it's no longer casually fucking a stranger if you've done it before. Does that mean none of us should form any attachment? Rigger--it sure would be nice if they did leave it all behind. -- I have met quite a few men and women here who are like me....maybe we're not the majority, but I'm not all that unusual. Just because I prefer hot steamy sex with someone I have spent time getting to know a bit first doesn't mean I shouldn't be here. Live and let live, eh?
Fetch1	6:14 am Thursday, 13^th February, 2014 Yes,I suppose this site is primarily for sexual encounters but anther main attraction is the diversity of personalities one comes across.There are some very interesting people on here ( yourself included of course ) and if one is a student of the human condition ,this is a fascinating pastime.One cannot relate to all I suppose,but the friendships I have formed, far outweigh the people who can't stand the sight of me ( I trust and hope )

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