At what point does it change?

"Flirting is a woman's piggy bank. She knows she'll be able to draw on her pennies in times of need."

-- Oscar Wilde (not)

I am naturally flirtatious; can't help myself.
I do try to make sure those I'm chatting to know my intentions (ie I don't have any intentions), but I think maybe my message isn't clear enough. Unfortunately this has lost me a couple of online friends.
:-(

I read your profile and it seems honest to me :) I on the other hand, am not a flirt. I'm here for one thing to meet a like minded lady. I have realized that this is probably not the site for me as I don't live in the UK :)

This seems to be the "reverse" version of your previous blog about "old flames" all crawling out of the woodwork at once - this time from a female perspective.

We all flirt to a degree, and I'm as guilty as anyone when it comes to "irons in the fire". However, as far as the blogs are concerned, flirting is largely for entertainment and theatrical effect. I suppose when I first started on the blogs I might have entertained the idea that it might be another path I could pursue to the inside of someone's knickers (excuse my French), but now I realize that was a little puerile (ahem.... !). Apart from banterish bonhomie, if any lady bloggers were *seriously* trying to flirt with me, then certainly I'm unaware of it, but I can be a bit myopic at times..... :-)

“Me? I'm being ridiculous? You're the one flirting for your thesis. What the hell kind of degree is that anyway? A doctorate of dick tease?”
― Erin McCarthy, Hard and Fast

I used to flirt with girls just to get the guys circling around us. I'm getting out of it now. I have to look after my reputation.

Katie Price

LadyLemon: If you think *you're* out on a limb on this site, what about me ? :-) Admittedly, I do come to UK on and off, though. From what I've gathered, there seem to be plenty of members in Canada; as for Japan, there seems to be only one couple represented.... and I've met them :-)

I've always believed that in this game any publicity is good publicity, especially for a bloke (haha....). I'm sure that single photo you have on your profile gets more hits in a week than I get in a year, although perhaps not always from your target audience :-)

"The secret of flirting is to flirt with everyone and not tell them you are flirting with anyone else."

I suppose the same could be said for shagging :-)

From The Mikado, Pish Tush's opening song.

" Our great Mikado,virtuous man,
When he to rule this land began,
resolved to find a plan,whereby young men might best be steadied.
So he decreed in words succinct,
That all who flirted,leered or winked,
Unless connubially linked,
Should forthwith be beheaded ! "

On that basis,my head should have been chopped off years ago !.... Or maybe it was and I just didn't notice.