this guy I've chatted with before ages ago who suddenly tonight decided he wanted to meet and couldn't understand why I wasn't up for it.
Yes, I suppose it is, I replied. But sometimes someone comes along who you want more than just once, and want to see where it goes. Some of us are up for immediate fun right now tonight; some of us are looking for a bit more.
I've chatted with quite a few women on here, and have met none who are into quick meets with nothing leading up to it. Maybe I'm missing out on something, and I know couples meeting are different (but even then, those I've talked to for the most part want to at least know the man a bit first).
Is this a place only for quick hook ups? We're all different, and that's ok.