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Loss of a family member

4:51 pm Saturday, 24th August, 2013

On August 21, 2013, I received a call from my mother about the death of my big brother, Robin. I was shocked, overwhelmed, and depressed to hear about his untimely death at the age of 57. He left behind a wife, son, daughter, and grandson.

He was running with his son when his heart simply stopped due to some kind of defect from within. The doctor said he was dead before he hit the ground because his eyes were glazed over when he was examined at the emergency room.

I've cried much within the moments I have to myself, because my brother never condemned me for being transgendered; he was always kind to me, smiled at me, and treated me with the consideration, dignity and respect that most other so-called Christians fail to do when they find out I am who I am.

I love him with all my heart, and I shall miss him so very much....



Comments
5:35 pm Saturday, 24th August, 2013

Thoughts are with you - dont know you but reaching out to a fellow human being in their time of needs

6:16 pm Saturday, 24th August, 2013

Your post is very moving and your grief and shock are going to be hard to bear but Curvybird has it right. With every piece of bad news I just become more grateful for all the good things in my life, and especially the people. Take care of yourself, xx Julie

10:50 pm Saturday, 24th August, 2013

you have my heart felt condolences

12:17 am Sunday, 25th August, 2013

Many thoughts with you Nikki.

'Sadness is but a wall between two gardens'.

Much love. X x

9:21 pm Friday, 30th August, 2013

Thank you to all of you for your warm, loving comments. We finally buried my brother today at the Veteran's National Cemetary in Montivallo Alabama. The profound dignified way in which the entire event was handled will always be with me, my family, and his family too.

Thank you all.....

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