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5:40 am Monday, 5th August, 2013

Kinky.....what is it?

I had the funniest conversation the other day with a (non Hub) friend over what constitutes kinky. She thought anal sex was kinky! I guess that being on here for so long has colored my definition.

When someone asks me what kinks I have, I reply that "kinky" or "dirty" is most often classified (on my part) as "fun."

I define kinky as extreme pain or elaborate bondage--things I would not do...What do you think is kinky??????



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9:38 am Monday, 5th August, 2013

Oh dear, based on the top 2 comments, may be a kinky sexual deviant... pmsl.....
Seriously though, I think kinky is more about what you consider pushes your boundaries, so for me would be extreme BDSM, though have to say, kinky is not always taboo... kinky can also be being very naughty, but again, one persons kinky, is another persons everyday sex life, I think that whatever happens between consenting adults is acceptable, if it is acceptable to them, then no one else's opinion should matter.

10:09 am Monday, 5th August, 2013

I think " kinky " is finding out what American girls like to do which they consider kinkyimg src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"
Love from fetch xxxxx

6:12 pm Tuesday, 20th August, 2013

Good discussion !

'Kinky' can't be an absolute, everyone defines kinky to their own levels. For me it sits in the 'twilight' of what (in my little world) I consider my boundaries to be.

So as an example, light bondange and swopping subdom roles is acceptable (or should that be desirable ;) ) Heavy bondage and pain is on the outside of my boundary, so I guess a playful spanking whilst tied would fall into the 'kinky' area for me......

7:00 pm Tuesday, 20th August, 2013

I think kinky can be whatever you want it to be.

We will all have our own colourful version of what defines it and I bet there will be more than 50 shades ...

8:38 pm Tuesday, 20th August, 2013

Graham196, two fingers, four fingers or, do you prefer the chunky?




Kit Kat

11:57 pm Tuesday, 20th August, 2013

I would think kinky is just another word for wanting to try something:)

6:58 am Wednesday, 21st August, 2013

Kinky is a can of spray cream, a jar of Nutella and a pineapple ;-)

10:40 am Wednesday, 21st August, 2013

the question is: 2 or 4 fingers where???

11:28 am Wednesday, 21st August, 2013

EroticG, Graham wasn't willing to share that bit of information.

11:38 am Wednesday, 21st August, 2013

That takes all the fun out of it...

12:40 pm Wednesday, 21st August, 2013

DrPepe, are you suggesting ten fingers or two five-fingered kit kats?
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1:41 pm Wednesday, 21st August, 2013

Ha ha Graham you've started a new craze with the Kit Kats

2:52 pm Wednesday, 21st August, 2013

Kinky Kats....the name has a certain ring to it.

How would go about marketing them?

12:05 am Friday, 6th December, 2013

Is kinky just on the socially acceptable side of deviant? Of course one person's deviant is another's soulmate. Ther are many things I would really like to try that are certainly deviant. However, once I have done them, I suspect they will be relegated to merely kinky. img src="imagesadultemoticons012.gif"

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