I have frequented this site for over five years now and I have experienced all that such a illustrious forum has to offer. From being stood up, fucked 'n forgotten (Sorry, but there is just no polite or ladylike way of putting it) and, I have even fallen in love..with a married man! I walked into that brick wall, with my eyes wide open. It has been an experience of note and an education. Especially, for a woman who until the age of 47, had only ever been with two men - she married both!!! Finding this website purely by accident (honestly!) I have honed more than my literary skills, during my time on here and my sexual liberation is documented, for the most part, in my Dating Diary. However, in this time, my needs have changed and the sign around my neck now reads: Girlfriend Available. I have discovered (the hard and painful way) that I am not wired for FWB with NSA and especially NOT for being The Other Woman, It is too emotionally taxing and with all that I have encountered - good, bad, happy and sad - it is time for me to look elsewhere, for whom and what I now know that I seek. Yes, I need to cast my line into another pond, where the fish wants to be caught - hook, line and sinker! In the interim, I will occasionally return, to keep up (pun intended!) the correspondence with the pen-pals I have made on here, during my escapades and who knows, I might cum across a knight on an iron steed, looking to ride off with a maiden (NO, not the virginal kind) for more than just a romp in the hay! When the inspiration strikes and I am so inclined, I will post of my discursive ramblings on here, but for now, I am rather cynical and ambivalent, which are passion killers. Hence, I need to revitalize and recharge my romantic optimism elsewhere.. I want the whole fucking fairy tale!!! LOVE (AND GREAT SEX) IS THE MASTER KEY, WHICH OPENS THE DOOR TO HAPPINESS!
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| Gender | Female | |
| Age | 59 | |
| Location | South Africa, Gauteng, Edenvale | |
| π Sexuality | Straight | |
| π» Gender Expression | Feminine | |
| π Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| π Relationship status | Divorced | |
| β Star Sign | Leo | |
| π¬ Smoke | No | |
| π· Drink | Socially | |
| π Drugs | No | |
| π½οΈ Diet | I eat everything! | |
| π‘οΈ Safe Sex | Sometimes | |
| π€Έ Exercise | Sometimes | |
| π Meet At | Somewhere Else | |
| π Height | 5ft 7in (170 cm) | |
| β Body Type | Slim | |
| ποΈ Eye colour | Other | |
| π± Hair Colour | Dark Brown | |
| 𦡠Body hair | Smooth | |
| π¨ Tattoos | No, but I want some | |
| π Piercings | Never! | |
| ποΈ Body Modifications | Never! | |
Angelique
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6:08 pm Wednesday, 15th April, 2015
Phone Her First Hopefully you men will agree without argument, that calling women is the no-brainer answer to the question - should the man call the woman or should the she call him? However, in a world where everything seems to be chaotic - from politics to dating - who should give their number to whom first? Which came first, the chicken or the egg? My straightforward answer, from my head and heart: The man should always call the woman as any gentleman would, and should. Right? Men and women alike have no doubt heard countless versions of what is appropriate dating etiquette and what is simply outrageous is that the incongruity alone, no doubt causes enough conflict. With the varying conflicts each century had added, only muddying the waters with the multitude of layers being added with each generation, even simple questions become convoluted. Who should make the first move, before knowing there is interest? Although is it not the point to find out? Should men wait three days after |
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Angelique
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11:00 am Saturday, 23rd February, 2019
Why is Love so hard to find? The answer may not be what you think! Our need for Love is present from the time we are born; our capacity for healthy growth and development (physical, mental and emotional) depends on Love. We are born with both the predisposition to give Love and a longing to receive Love, with our capacity to effectively do either, relying on the other being fulfilled. So, IF we all have the capacity to Love, and we all need Love, why is Love so fucking hard to find? The conventional response to this question is: Love - True, Real Love - is rare, and finding it, is simply a matter of luck, aligned stars and divine intervention. However, I believe that the truth is a lot simpler: I need to look (harder) for it! I repeat: Most people, most of the time, are not really looking for Love; legover, absofuckinglutely LOL. Many are not looking, even when desperate to find it. Love - the kind that nurtures relationships and being committed to all it encompasses - is a very s |
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12:36 pm Wednesday, 13th February, 2019
Survive the Valentine's Day Minefield The need to love, and to be loved, is central to our idea of happiness. Being in love, and loving someone, is bound up with perception, imagination and a desired reality. So, Valentine's Day, and romance in general, are all about the fantasy. Valentine's Day is one of those days, where we can put aside the complex, real nature of relationships and act out our fantasy idea of love. Much marketing is based on exploiting both our imagination and our desired reality. This, would necessitate a whole new topic! LOL Women associate Valentine's Day with romance, love and intimacy, but for men, the occasion evokes more trepidation then anticipation. The challenge of meeting their significant other's expectations, presents a minefield of potential disappointments that can blow up in their faces with any misstep. A common complaint among men is that you just do not know what women want (No shit LOL) and this goes as much for Valentine's Day, as for everyth |
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Angelique
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8:08 pm Monday, 11th February, 2019
The Importance of making Sex Dates I am a BIG advocate of Sex Dates. NO! Not a dinner date. Not a movie. Not a walk in the park or even a breakfast run on the bikes. Just .. A Date for Sex. And why? Because Sex Dates are very important to all of our well-being. LOL We often hear how couples today, set aside date night. It is their "special evening" where they make time for each other, without distractions no kids, not chores and definitely, no work. It might involve a nice romantic dinner, a show, a park run with the dogs or merely alone time together at home. Oh, and maybe even Sex. Knowing what we do about the power of Sex, to energize and uplift our minds, bodies and souls, it should surely be as important to prioritize Sex in our lives, right? To even schedule it to fit in. Think about all the other self-care regimens we have: visits to the dentist, gynae, proctologist and even to the gym. Do we leave them to chance? Hope that we will eventually get around to them? Or, do we loo |
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Angelique
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10:56 am Wednesday, 5th December, 2018
My Love Wish for 2019 I want to meet the next Love of My Life I have been in love quite a few times in my life......... One was my First (Teenage) Love, who kissed me in the passage of a friend's house when I was in Std 8 and I punched him; we dated for a whole three weeks. One is my first husband - the father of my two wonderful children - and one (my second husband) is the man I left my first husband for, at the age of 35 (my mother reckons I had a hormonal imbalance LOL.) One was the first man I met on a sex site who chartered a helicopter, took two planes and drove out of the bush, down to the sea to meet me. A few others followed; and then, I met the Love of My Life who is married to another woman. And now, I am with a man I cannot honestly say I truly Love. I love(d ) them all and to say, one was more significant than the other (except Him) would be wrong. I love(d) them all differently, for different reasons and at different times in my life; the men I married I love, but nei |
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12:01 pm Monday, 15th October, 2018
I have Dating Fatigue Dating has becum really challenging and disappointing for me. Sometimes, like this past rainy weekend - I feel like crawling under a blanket and just binge watching Showmax, until everything is okay again. It has really gotten me feeling rather down, as a few times before, since deciding that I did not want to be a FWB or The Other Woman anymore, but rather that I want to be the Girlfriend who rocked a man's world. I do know that it is not about Me! When rejected, our first impulse is to always blame ourselves. What did I do? Why is he rejecting me? What's wrong with me? However, if the men I want to date (No, it's not that many LOL) rejects me and/or treat me poorly, I need to keep in mind that if they chose to act this way, it is on them. Their behaviour does not have anything to do with me. There have been so many times that I have rejected men; not because they are not totally lovely human beings, but because of something intangible that told me that they ju |
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9:40 pm Wednesday, 24th October, 2018
A Signiicant Other makes a Better Lover For me, being In Love makes for Great Sex or as I prefer to call it Making Love (on occasion Fucking) - is a completely different experience with every man I have ever done it with, which is actually what makes it so exciting, especially when starting to date someone new. Even though there will (most likely and hopefully) always be variety in my sexual experiences, I have discovered one thing to be true, over the years, that I used to think was a total sexual myth: Sex with a partner I consider to be a Significant Other (SO) has always been more enjoyable than with a man who is merely a hook-up. I did not purposefully set out on a mission to prove this to myself or to any anyone .. It just sort of happened that way. I have not always dated the men I have slept with. Yes, I have indulged in Casual Sex with men I did not really know; even on a first date. Shock! Horror! LOL Although, it has been quite a while since I have had meaningless legover, |
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9:54 am Tuesday, 1st December, 2015
Sex? Why? Many things get lost in relationships, among them inhibitions, senses of humour, socks - and, in many cases, libido. It is a very lucky and unusual couple, who continue to feel the same passion for each other, which ignited their early courtship. Far more common, is the story of the once-happy sex life that waned, as that initial physical bond becomes fractured in the maelstrom of raising children, earning a living, running a house and growing older i.e. living life! Indeed, the statistics tell a story of decline: the older we get, the less love we make. However, growing older in a committed relationship does NOT have to mean a slow slide into celibacy and slippers. Couples for whom the spark of passion still burns bright may be rarer than those whose flame is long extinguished, but they DO exist. Spontaneity is the key to a healthy physical relationship. Partners should not have to specifically go to bed early to have Sex or because they have been together so long, they |
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Angelique
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9:14 am Monday, 1st February, 2016
New Year's Resolution - Sexercise!!! In the season of New Year resolutions to improve our lives, what could possibly be better than the confirmation that Sex burns as many calories as exercise? For some, the news may cum with a boom. With time at a premium as each of us struggles to get back to work, after a month of sloth and over-indulgence, working in a promise to get fit, alongside relationship commitments can prove taxing on the schedule. And, with women burning an average 90 calories and men an average 120 calories per amorous coupling, that is nothing to be sniffed at. Admittedly, I am somewhat thicker around the waist than I was back in the days, but then again, I was also younger, which could not have anything to do with it - oh no! As certain media outlets repeatedly inform us, it is a woman's duty to look precisely the same at every age past 25, or as it is known - 'ageing gracefully'. Until the point that is, at which our neck is noticeably several decades older than ou |
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Angelique
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10:56 am Wednesday, 30th March, 2016
Get connected for Better Sex Men - all you want is Sex! Right? Really? No, not really! Not all men want Sex all the time... This is a stereotype that plagues the male species. Men often do get a bum rap, depicted as constantly sexually motivated, as if you all live in a mental squirrel cage with a constant agenda to get into a womans panties, nightie or "whatever-ies" she is wearing. At times, men get labelled - hound dogs, sicko's and insatiable; like seeing a bobble-head doll with a non-retractable erection. What a shame! Society - the male species included - needs a better, more accurate view of men and what they truly want from their sex partner - both when their clothes are on and when naked. So, what does Sex truly mean to men and why do you seek it? How might this be different than us women or at least a variation on what females experience in our desire and search for physical release and connection? Yes, Boys......We also want Sex! For many men, sexual contact opens up a ga |
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Angelique
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6:17 am Thursday, 24th March, 2016
The Dark Side of Love Love is a dam tricky thing. It varies in its intensity and in the specificity of its emotions. It is sometimes, the most beautiful thing in the world; at others, it is the most horrid we have ever come face-to-face with. It is odd how one thing could be the cause of so many contrary feelings. But, that is what makes Love so wonderful - it is the closest thing to perfection that exists in the world; the only thing that can easily and comfortably encompass both Good and Evil; Beautiful and Ugly. It is the closest thing to a flawless whole that anyone - who has loved - can ever claim to have been part of. When we think of Love, we think of the happy kind of Love - the kind that is the beginning of something beautiful something that breathes life into our soul. There is, however, another kind of Love - a much darker and sadder kind of Love. It is the Love one feels, when one loves someone we can never and will never have. It is the kind of Love that does not signal |
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Angelique
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8:50 am Monday, 15th June, 2015
Sex is all in Our Minds Emotional Intelligence (EI) is the key to great sex and it is something we can all cultivate. Picture the (all too familiar?) scene: A woman finds it hard to orgasm. Although she still loves her partner, for some reason, they have lost that connection and are no longer in tune with one another. Whenever he wants sex, she is not in the mood and when she tries to be affectionate to him, he is evasive or turns away. She lacks that instinctive ability to know what she enjoys and how to ask for it....... The solution: Had I been smarter (back then) my sexual satisfaction would have improved and my marriages might have survived..... An outrageous scenario? Perhaps, and a pretty brutally honest opinion, but there certainly would appear, that sexual intelligence or more accurately emotional intelligence is at the root to me (and most other women and men) of truly enjoyable sex. It is a proven fact, that the greater a womans EI, the greater her ability to climax. |
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Angelique
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9:14 am Monday, 15th June, 2015
Great Sex - Use Your Brain! Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions. (Woody Allen) Contrary to what you might believe, the brain is the largest and most sensitive organ in the body, especially a woman's.....Sorry guys! Keeping your brain fit and healthy has a far greater impact on your sex life, than keeping your body fit and healthy, although that is pretty important too. If you want to have a great sex life, you need to pay attention to the way your and her brain works - the differences in the male and female brain - and the sexual power of the brain in between physical encounters. Great sex DOES NOT just happen in a brief physical connection. The brain is involved in setting the stage for great sex - fostering the way that stimulates you mentally, before you are ever aroused physically. This is particularly true in women. When our brain is healthy, it helps us be kind, intimate, creative, thoughtful and loving. If our br |
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Angelique
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3:37 pm Tuesday, 16th June, 2015
Why Sex? Why do we sleep at night? This is seemingly a simple question. But in fact it is a most difficult question, as of yet unanswered by science. Many seemingly simple questions are, on close inspection, not at all easy to answer. One of these and perhaps the most interesting is why we have sex. Why do we want sex? The usual answer is, of course, based on the known reproductive function of sex. We want sex, because our continued existence as a species depends on it. Children come from sex, we learn. And, the thing about the stork is just a story! But, the facts on the ground undermine this assumption. First, we continue to engage in sex long after we have stopped having children. Well, most of us do. Often, our sex lives actually get better, because there are no more worries about unplanned pregnancy (or, a bit later, about the kids popping up bedside mid-action saying they need to pee). Which leads me to the following fact: most sex happening right now around the world is NOT p |
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Angelique
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6:11 pm Tuesday, 23rd June, 2015
Striking Out We reject things on a daily basis - we reject items we do not want; ideas we do not like; and, opportunities we do not see fit for us. Rejection is as much a part of our world as is approval. It drives a healthy system of competition and ensures a high standard of quality. However, what happens when we, as human beings male and female - reject each other? Rejection comes as one of the most brutal stakes to the heart, because it deals a direct blow to our ego. Our ego is the inherent part of ourself, which holds intact our pride, esteem and self-worth. When our ego is bruised, a core element of our being is damaged. We often feel reduced to a lesser version of ourselves. We automatically begin to blame ourselves, assuming there must be something WRONG with us and criticizing the behaviour that led to our rejection - dating. Of the many forms of rejection - being denied by a possible, potential love-interest - is one of the most agonizing. We are grieved by a deep sense o |
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Angelique
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8:38 am Sunday, 21st June, 2015
Happy Father's Day A Dad is a person who is loving and kind, And often he knows what you have on your mind. He's someone who listens, suggests, and defends A Dad can be one of your very best friends! He's proud of your triumphs but when things go wrong A Dad can be patient and helpful and strong. In all that you do, a Dad's love plays a part There's always a place for him deep in your heart. And each year that passes You're even more glad, More grateful and proud just to call him your Dad! So, thank you Dad for listening and caring for giving and sharing but, especially, for just being you! God took the strength of a mountain, The majesty of a tree, The warmth of a summer sun, The calm of a quiet sea, The generous soul of nature, The comforting arm of night, The wisdom of the ages, The power of the eagle's flight. The joy of a morning in spring, The faith of a mustard seed, The patience of eternity, The depth of a family need. Then God combined these qualities, When there was |
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Angelique
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9:31 pm Wednesday, 1st July, 2015
Sexual Health Just as beauty is in the eye of the beholder, Sex, whether it is hot or not, is the opinion of the couple getting it on. Many have sex once a month, in the same position and love it! Others feel unloved, if it is not every day. It is NOT a problem, unless one of us is complaining........ We do not need to swing from a chandelier to be happy! Sexual pleasure is an important part of a happy, healthy life. But, Sex is about more than just Orgasms. Our sexual health is tied to our physical health and our emotional wealth - no ka-ching and when something is awry or not happening in the bedroom, it can often impact on our life, outside of it. That is why sexual pleasure is essential for our holistic well-being. An active, pleasurable sex life is a sign that our sexual function and sexual health are on track, which are also good signs for our physical health too. This is because ailments such as impaired cardiovascular ability can often first present, as sexual issues (such a |
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Angelique
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10:58 am Wednesday, 29th July, 2015
For the Last Time...... Some of you, who have been following My Diary, know that these past three years have brought about a significant amount of change for me. Mostly good. All growth. Amazing opportunities too. And, with all that change, brings new light; new perspective; new love and fresh beginnings to a better, happier life. While this site has been my "labour of love"; my metaphorphosis; my evolution, it is time to move on - to start the next chapter of My Story in My Book of Life. I recently launched my own site and there is no better way to explain what it is or what I want it to be, than to say......... To thine own self be true. (Shakespeare. Hamlet Act 1, Scene 3, 78-82) Truth: I am not much of a Shakespeare fan. But, as a novice literary buff, I know it cannot be discounted. And, there are those times, when I have decided Shakespeare is trite, or cheesy, or even plain old boring. That is, until I stumble upon a line, a sonnet, a thought that seems to hit home - like frig |
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Angelique
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3:45 pm Monday, 13th July, 2015
Opening the Channels of Sexual Communication It goes without saying, that we all like to enjoy making love to our partner; yet nearly every other aspect of Sex calls for a chat. Why? Because those of us who discuss such topics, effectively are 10 times more likely to have a happy, healthy sex and relationship than those who do not talk about inherently a rather difficult subject, especially where intimacy is concerned. SEX can be awkward, to talk about. For some, just saying the word out loud, can often illicit squirms, flustered red faces or uncomfortable laughter. The intimacy and personal nature of sex is what makes it so difficult to talk about in public, never mind private. But, talking about sex with your partner -- that should be easy, right? Wrong! Sometimes discussing sex with the one person who we are actually having sex with, can be the hardest of all - but it does not have to be. The best thing a couple can do is to be honest right from the very start. It is important to |
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Angelique
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5:17 am Wednesday, 29th April, 2015
Starting Over from Scratch.....or at least thinking about it. A WOMAN WITH DREAMS NEEDS A MAN WITH VISION..... With a colourful past spanning a half century of childhood, motherhood - I have two fantastic adult kids (both overseas) - and womanhood, I have reached a point in my life now, where my happiness is not reliant on others, nor their responsibility. However, with a new home and job in JHB, I have brought about significant change in all spheres and I have endeavoured to simplify, yet enrich. my life. I want to share it now, with an incredibly special man. A notoriously efficient, competent and intrinsically motivated individual, with above average intelligence, an offbeat sense of humour and a revitalized romantic optimism, I get that I am not every man's cup of tea and, you know what, that is OK! I am strong willed (baie eiewys) opinionated, yet empathetic, and I am not a shopping mall fiend or prikkelpoppie. I like fast cars, motorbikes - preferably adventure offroad, guns an |
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Angelique
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7:45 pm Tuesday, 5th May, 2015
Going Fishing In spite of the many differences between men and women, we all essentially want the same thing from our love lives. We wish for a relationship with the key ingredients of driving passion, beautiful romance, supportive friendship, intimate connection, outrageous fun, personal growth, enhanced self-esteem and peace of mind. Unfortunately, only a few of us will ever experience a love life that measures up to our dreams. Why? Is it a case of bad luck? No! it is merely a matter of making poor decisions; bad choices. That does not mean we have to be in a relationship to be happy, but it sure does make a difference to the colour of our lives, if we are in love. So, rather than get and give advice on how to make it happen, it is best to THINK about making better and wiser decisions, to find and hold onto the love we ultimately desire. Women hold the power in a love relationship, because we drive men wild with desire, keeping a man emotionally hooked with our womanly sweetness, |
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Angelique
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10:47 am Wednesday, 6th May, 2015
Going Fishing - A Different Angle on Love In this age of modern technology, I do not want to be the one missing-out on love, because of a lack of a basic awareness and perspective about lifes most important values. After all, what is life without its art, verse and music worth, if there is no love found, gained and kept. Even though past relationships have left me angry, hurt, confused, frustrated and disappointed in men and in myself there is NO intelligent reason to give up on looking for true love. I believe that getting and keeping the man of my dreams is not a complicated process. In fact, it is much like an experienced angler catches a big fish! I need to take what I have already experienced (especially, over the last 30 months), recreate a new empowering attitude, redesign my romantic package, redefine my personal strategies and cum up with a new, compelling, effective and fun plan. With a fresh start, a deeper compassion for myself, an unstoppable desire for success, a hea |
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7:15 am Thursday, 14th May, 2015
Going Fishing - Being Ready Great ideas only take root in the minds of those who are willing and ready to receive them. Old garbage needs to make way for the new and changing my life for the better, means I need to think for the better too. I also deserve better and to get more out of love and life, I need to raise my expectations NOT lower them! I need to be constantly prepared to learn new things, even failure. Procrastination (my middle name) is NOT a consideration when it cums to love, as love is very unlikely to magically appear in my life. Tomorrow is not going to wait for me! Love, like life, is a daring adventure....or nothing at all! Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than exposure. I am wise in my capacity to experience; not what I have experienced and I need to be willing to change my results, but changing my approach. The love and happiness I desire may only be a couple of minor adjustments or decisions away. I am responsible for my own love life and cannot bl |
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Angelique
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11:18 am Thursday, 14th May, 2015
Going Fishing - Beginner's Luck? Looking for love is not new to me; so, Beginners Luck is NOT an option! With a fresh optimistic attitude about my life, the people in it and love - good fortune will hopefully cum my way....soon. I enjoy the company of men. I like meeting new people, although strangely, I am rather reserved at first, believe it or not. Despite being rather ambivalent of late, with the whole dating game, I am optimistic about falling in love in the not-too-distant future. This is because I have an abundance of energy, to contribute to a loving relationship. Yes, my attitude will determine my altitude! It makes ordinary Me, striking and in no way, a flawless beauty or insipid bore. My attitude will compensate for my inherent lack of knowledge, experience and skill, despite what others may think. There is no aphrodisiac, such as innocence and I need to tap into the inexplicable magic of recapturing and retaining mine - my refreshing youthfulness, openness, cheerfulness, |
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6:53 pm Thursday, 14th May, 2015
Going Fishing - Confidence in Myself All the knowledge and talent in the world, is of little value without following through and taking action. Nothing diminishes action like fear and self-doubt. It is therefore essential, that I solidify my self-confidence. I having everything at my disposal all the kit bait, lines, hooks, sinkers, flies, reels, trolling lures, tackle box and landing net. But it is my fishing rod my self-confidence, that is symbolic. Like a rod to an angler and a rifle to a hunter, both are useless without a reel with line and a bullet, respectively. Self-confidence is key to my success an starting to build a loving relationship. SEX APPEAL IS 50 PERCENT OF WHAT I HAVE AND 50 PERCENT OF WHAT MEN THINK I HAVE. I may have learnt how to be sexy in the way in which I dress, move, behave with poise and elegance. I have discovered the importance of being kind to myself and have become my own biggest supporter. By not comparing myself to others and cherishing my own |
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9:18 am Friday, 15th May, 2015
Going Fishing - Baiting the Hook YOU CANNOT FISH WITHOUT GOOD BAIT..... The first skill of romantic love is the presentation of alluring femininity to engender a powerful force of attraction. If a man does not chase me, there is NO chance of me catching him. The force of my attraction works like that of a magnet; the more powerful the magnet, the more it will attract. And, to attract, I need to be attractive and the strong my attraction, the wider range of quality men I will be able to choose from. That is easier said than done, because the question is.....am I considered Good Bait? Bait is needed to lure the fish to bite the hook and selecting good bait, is essential to successful fishing. And, you apparently need the right type of bait to catch certain fish. As I am not a FHM model, Jennifer Aniston, Demi Moore or Anna Kournikova, I need to rely on more than just my looks. There is a multitude of media material, where I could gather tips on becoming a more attractive woman. However |
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9:00 pm Sunday, 10th May, 2015
Going Fishing - Preparing for Love Hes a nice catch. She landed herself a man. Shed like to hook the right guy There are more fish in the sea. He was the big one that got away....... Our ordinary concepts, in terms of what we think and act, are fundamentally metaphorical in nature i.e. relationships are like fishing! It makes it all supposedly easier to understand.....right? I for one, do not want my love life to be an irritating source of confusion and frustration. I do not need a bachelors degree in psychology (despite wanting and planning on getting one) to realize the romantic complexities I am having to confront and deal with ignorance is NOT bliss! It invariably leads to pain, suffering, regret and disappointment. THE CHARM OF FISHING IS THAT IT IS THE PURSUIT OF WHAT IS ATTAINABLE A PURPETUAL SERIES OF OPPORTUNITIES FOR HOPE. Much like fishing, love is elusive the harder I chase it, the less likely I am to get it; it is attainable it is possible to fall in love and be hap |
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Angelique
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11:10 am Friday, 8th May, 2015
Going Fishing - Fishing for Love To capture the heart of a man, I do not have to be the most beautiful, confident, intelligent, youthful, colourful, sexiest, sweetest or best-qualified mate. I have been trying to catch a fish, by swimming around with them. I keep getting back into the water. I try different rivers. I change my stroke, but nothing seems to work. I know about fishing rods, bait and how to cast. I even what to do when the line gets taut, but it is still depressing, when nothing bites or the fish hooked, is lost. I clearly need to learn to fish properly i.e. play the game of love. This, if I want to attract, capture and keep the attention and heart of a man, who creates and contributes consistent, exciting and lasting happiness. I need to get clever be mentally bright, intelligently capable and creative. As a smart woman, I have learnt the ability to combine knowledge, wisdom, talent and skill, together with my intuition, to take advantage of love opportunities. I am |
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7:19 am Saturday, 9th May, 2015
Going Fishing - Chase or Capture? Why do I have to do all the work? Am I not supposed to be the princess and the man, like my knight in shining armour, arriving on his iron steed, to sweep me off my feet? Where TF is he then? Despite tradition expecting the man to do the chasing, it is in fact the woman, who does the catching and who is the aggressor. When the man does the catching, he tends to get restless; he starts to wonder; and, he eagerly yearns to take part in the catching process, again.......the thrill of romantic love for him then, lies in the challenge of the chase living his entire life in pursuit of assorted bigger and grander thrills. Paradoxically, when a woman does the catching, a man is emotionally hooked and more appreciative of her efforts. He is less likely to wander, thus voluntarily staying. Is it true then, that men like elusive woman? However, a woman, who does the chasing and pursues a man, runs the risk of going against human nature. Five millions years of |
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8:34 am Tuesday, 26th May, 2015
Going Fishing - Catch and Release A common practise in the sport of fly-fishing is where the angler sets a fish free, immediately after catching it; much like giving a man, enough space periodically, to revive himself emotionally, that he can continue pursuing the woman he desires. A great secret to keeping love alive...........is Catch n Release! LOVE MAKES TIME PASS. TIME MAKES LOVE PASS. We all want a great love life that is exciting, inspiring, passionate, intimate, fulfilling and lasting. I know I do. But in todays complex world, this ideal combination is hard to find. The secret to staying in love is learning how to make love all the time...... If I truly want happiness out of my love life, I must continue to seek and enjoy the thrills of romance, while continually nurturing what it takes to make love grow and last. Much like my Moms Box of Chocolate story when courting a girl, a man cannot buy her a big enough box of chocolates and over time, the box becomes smaller and smal |
| 7:04 am Sunday, 22nd September, 2024
all that horsepower between your legs |
