When I first got into the lifestyle, I dated my professor in college. She was 49 at the time and I was that 25 year old guy that knew it all but I was so wrong. She taught me that the lifestyle starts with respect, trust and communication. You couldn't sign onto a website and you couldn't designate yourself a Dom. You actually were partnered with a mentor and learned the old school way. The theory was an aspiring Dominant needed to understand the psychological impact one can have crossing a sub's boundaries.
Taking steps is very important. Setting limits and putting things you want to explore or have explored into separate categories. Also without your mind your body will never follow.
What people don't understand is that the lifestyle is about creativity. Understanding that the body and mind are partners. Without one you fully never have the other.
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 48 | |
| Location | USA, Massachusetts, Northampton | |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight | |
