When it comes to understanding BDSM, non-practitioners generally equate the kinky lifestyle with the chains, ropes, whips, and handcuffs found in Christian Grey’s “red room of pain” in Fifty Shades of Grey. And among the different elements included in the BDSM portmanteau (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism), the middle portion (a dom sub relationship) may be the most difficult to understand for those outside the kink community.
Often equated with sadism , dominance and submission plays with the concepts of power and control rather than physical sensation. In a Dominantsubmissive, aka Domsub or simply Ds, relationship, the power dynamic between the participants is the kink. Essentially, the person in the dominant role takes partial or total control over the person in the submissive role.
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 40 | |
| Sexuality | Straight | |
| Location | USA, California, Merced | |
