Intelligent, witty, non-desperate guy seeking couples for casual liaisons. The guidelines when writing your profile say don't waffle which I think discourages intelligent discourse on the subject of encounters of the wibbly-wobbly kind. Looking through all the ads on sites like this can be a bit scary, I think. Assuming you're really up for it, how on earth do you select? The last thing you want to do is invite some weirdo oaf into your home, someone who'll try to stampede straight to the clitoris (assuming he can find it), taking what he wants from the situation whilst at the same time giving very little back. Not good. Me, well, you can invite me round, let me cook you dinner and just see what happens, absolutely no pressure at all. In my (not vast) experience, sometimes things just click, in which case, disco, and sometimes they don't, in which case, no problem whatsoever and certainly no awkwardness if things don't turn out - I think that, as in many sexual liaisons, much of the thrill is the anticipation. Just reading these profiles is thrilling, although the sight of some of the flesh on offer can jar you rapidly back to reality sharpish! So maybe you really want to go for it and make the next step of contacting someone, take your pick, there's something for all tastes! If you're doing it for the first time, you'll inevitably run into the problem of making a really big deal about it all. You'll assume it's like crossing the Rubicon, that going for a threesome will open new horizons that either one of you might think its impossible to return from. Wrong! It so doesn't have to be that way. With me, if I get the impression that you are making a big deal of it, or that one partner is pushing for it more than the other, I'd back away. Seriously, your enjoyment is my enjoyment and the last thing I would want to do is just eat, shoot and leave! I'm sure some of you hardcore types must think that with this profile I'm the one making a big deal of things, but all I'm trying to do is put the couple (gosh I hate the word "swingers") at ease. Again, in my experience, a threesome is a mental workout for your mind and, oddly, the bump and grind element is almost secondary. Or is all of this over-analysis? I don't know, maybe it is. perhaps you want some of the usual details.. OK, 7" circumcised which means I can go for ages, and one of the things I'm most skilled at is licking pussy! Every girl I've known has different preferences and I'm simply confident enough to ask you what you like and alter my style to suit! How many guys just do their own thing, and you're lying there afraid to tell him you want something different for fear of bruising his fragile ego! Crazy! OK, the picture of me on this profile is moderately flattering, taken in Majorca about 2 yrs ago, Yeah I know that's not very recent but it's the fleshiest one i've got and there's absolutely no way I'm posting a fresh one of me with my kit off in crap indoor lighting! Those ones are just not very flattering, i find. OK so maybe you think I've really porked in two years but no, I'm still about the same size, still got the same number of limbs etc, although I'm not quite so tanned just now! Basically, I think you've just gotta take those preconceptions of how all this shit works and turn them on their head - above all it's gotta be fun and life-affirming and it's got to work for you. If you don't think it will add anything to your relationship then don't go through with it, that's my main piece of advice. The difference with me is that you can take things that much further and still back out at any time without any fear of causing offence! All the best, and good luck xx
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 50 | |
| Location | UK, England: Essex, Colchester | |
| π Sexuality | Straight | |
| π Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| π¬ Smoke | No | |
| π· Drink | Socially | |
| π Drugs | Sometimes | |
| π‘οΈ Safe Sex | Sometimes | |
| π Meet At | Your place | |
| π Height | 6ft 1in (185 cm) | |
| β Body Type | Average | |
| π± Hair Colour | Light Brown | |
| 𦡠Body hair | Trimmed | |
