I have no idea....well that isn't entirely true, we all have some
idea, just nothing specific. . I don't have a problem meeting men, I guess
I just haven't met the right man. I want a friend as well as a
boyfriend, someone to talk to, go to the beach with, go shopping, someone that
can give me an opinion on things. I don't want to take over anyone's
life. We will have our own lives, yet want to be with each other. I will
be there whenever she needs me, and I want him to be there if I ever
need him. Is this too much to ask??I believe in compromise and
discussion, finding out what the other person thinks and feels. I want to take
the time to get to know someone who wants to take the time to get to know
me. Hopefully nice guys DON'T finish last.
The person I'd like to meet is first of all a friend. Someone who I can
have fun with and feel like we are on the same page. My ideal friend is
witty, but not mean spirited beautiful but not pompous driven but not
absentminded affectionate but not suffocating and secure enough to
let go and know I'll return
I am not sure what I can write here to even begin to describe
everything that makes me who I am, without sounding like a resume. I recently
saw the movie "Hitch", which I thought was great, other people may not
have. The best point they made is that it is really hard to walk up to
someone and say "I like you." It really just doesn't work, you need to
find some other opportunity. Well, maybe these personals will provide
some sort of opportunity to at least find out if I like someone and they
like me. It really doesn't work when only person likes someone..I think
they call it "stalking" or something..haha..who really has the time
to stalk someone that obviously doesn't like them? What really matters
is that two people can just get along, have fun, and be themselves.
Obviously there has to be some physical attraction, but without a good
personality, that really doesn't go very far. I would like to find someone
that I can just be myself with and have a good time doing anything. I
am really tired of bars and clubs. My Mom says I could meet a nice guy
at the Library..lol..that didn't work out either..at least she means
well. As far as work is concerned, I own my own construction company,
but I majored in Genetics in college. Long story as to how I had such a
major career shift, we'll save that for later. I like to spend time
with my family, go to the gym, do things with my friends and just go out.
I am pretty laid back overall...My ideal is first and foremost a man
with a plan who understands the pressures of work and success but it
willing to wade and work through it all for the right guy. He is
masculine, charming, spontaneous, fun, and most importantly supportive and
open minded. It is no lie that its a challenge to bring two hard working
men together but I want someone in my life that isn't so jaded that
they think its impossible. Family is very important to me so, I want
someone who can deal with that craziness and make a go of it. Yes, I want
the guy I am happy to bring home to Mom and Dad. My guy is driven, yet
compassionate and considerate of those around him. He is a risk taker
and is willing to put the time in for me and vise-versa. He is down to
earth, connected to those around him, caring and has the ability to show
that without being ashamed or feeling less of a man. My guy is ok with
experiencing new things and gets excited about travel, etc. Truly, I
need someone in my life again who has the ability and resources to jump
on a plane and see each other when we need to. I apologize for this
laundry list..I could go on and on. If you are interested in hearing more
just say hello.
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 39 | |
| Sexuality | Straight | |
| Location | UK, England: Cambridgeshire, Barrington | |
| Ethnicity | Mixed Ethnicity | |
| Height | 5ft 6in (168 cm) | |
| Build | Slim | |
| Body hair | Natural | |
| Drink | Socially | |
| Smoke | No | |
| Drugs | None | |
| Travel | Can accommodate, Will travel | |
| Safe sex | Always | |
