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Swinger joshman289 (Male) from USA, South Bay

Hello, let me introduce myself.
I am an experienced Dom, seeking preferably bisexual women subsslaves with the eventual hope of a long term polyandrous relationship. Straight girls are okay too, but you will have to except that I will have other subslaves. After having read some of the profiles at this site, I must say many of the other doms here disgust me. The DomSub relationship is an EQUAL but DIFFERENT relationship. A Dom that does not respect his Sub does not deserve to be dominant. It's that simple. Ladies, I am not a man to rush things. I like to take things very slowly and I have a great deal of patience. I think the internet is an ideal way for a Domsub to get to know each other. I think it takes a series of chat interviews (not cybersex) for me to get to know a sub well enough to know her needs and take care of them. Meeting the varied and specific needs of a woman who desires domination is my greatest joy in life. I am particularly fond of introducing new women to the lifestyle, and I love training. I really am a teacher at heart. I am happy to answer any technical questions you might have about minutia of the lifestyle and its various aspects, whether or not you seek me as your own personal master. If you are interested in knowing me better, I vow that I will take the time to get to know you properly. I will know your ins, outs, tolerances, controls, and limits as much as is possible, before I ever touch you. The very first time I chat with a potential subslave, I open a file, and take copious notes to insure I can best fill her specific needs. I am very respectful of women. When I am degrading toward a subslave, it is to help her to reach her emotional and sexual satisfaction. Every woman is of course different about those needs. I am not a Sadist. I am a Dom I want that to be clear. If a woman enjoys pain, I enjoy giving her what she wants and needs, and I will push her to her limits to achieve the most pleasure for her. If you are more into being dominated and controlled that's what we will focus on. Each relationship with my women is different, and has different limits which I always ALWAYS respect. My basic rules are, that my slaves own all of their own toys and props, and must bring them into the relationship, as an offering to me. I insist on a bare minimum of one weekend one on one for a first time contract, in a neutral place like a hotel room, before I will bring a new sub into my home. Jealousy between my women is not tolerated EVER! If you cannot go into a relationship, looking forward to getting to know my women under my direction, I am really not interested in you. Professionally I am a writer, (mostly historical non-fiction) and I also work in health care. I am a big history buff, and I am a historical re-enactor. I am athletic, and insist that my subs work out every day. We usually lift weights together. I am a gourmet cook, and a licensed massage therapist. I used to be a Hospital Corpsman in the Navy, and I am a veteran of the latest unpleasantness in Iraq. I was there at the beginning of the war in 2003. Ladies I believe in living a responsible green lifestyle, and although I live in an apartment now, my dream is to eventually live in the suburbs on a small self sustaining organic farm, so that I can grow my own food for the better health of my women and myself. As of yet I have no children. I do not tolerate drugs among my women except for alcohol and cannabis. Under special circumstances i.e. deal breaker I have allowed a sub to smoke tobacco. I am a minor cannabis activist, and believe strongly that the plant should be legalized for the benefit of mankind. Politically I am a libertarian. Robert Heinlein, Phillip K. Dick, the whole Berkley scene of the seventies (although that was way before my time) pretty much sum me up politically. Anyway I know this is a long profile, but I think it is important to firmly establish my grounding beliefs before I invite you into my life.

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joshman289 Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 45
Location USA, Florida, South Bay
🌈 Sexuality Straight
🌎 Ethnicity White / Caucasian
🚬 Smoke Yes
🍷 Drink Socially
πŸ’Š Drugs Sometimes
πŸ›‘οΈ Safe Sex Sometimes
πŸ“ Height 6ft 3in (190 cm)
βŒ› Body Type Athletic
πŸ‘± Hair Colour Dark Brown
🦡 Body hair Natural
🎨 Tattoos I've got some