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Need to be useful, helpful, and effective.

Swinger Paulo321 (Male) from USA, Bonsall

I enjoy a woman who knows what she wants, has herself figured out, and is direct. This can sometimes come off as dominance, but not necessarily so. I'm a pleaser so it's incredibly frustrating to offer something to someone that doesn't know what they want.

I have a high empathy response. So any pleasure my partner experiences is reflected back to me. I have a need to be useful, helpful, and effective. This spills into my vanilla life when I get frustrated with nothing to do. I also gravitate towards service jobs where I can help people.

My primary motivation in relationships and in life is to bring value to my environment, and give people a shoulder to cry or stand on. Empathy allows me to feel the success of others, and I also unfortunately feel their pain. For this reason I avoid doing harm, and uplift as much as possible. This is most effective when under the guidance and leadership of a big-picture person.

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Paulo321 Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 42
Location USA, California, Bonsall
🌈 Sexuality Straight
🚻 Gender Expression Masculine
🌎 Ethnicity Mixed Ethnicity
⭐ Star Sign Virgo
🚬 Smoke No
🍷 Drink Socially
πŸ’Š Drugs No
🍽️ Diet It’s complicated
πŸ›‘οΈ Safe Sex Always
🏠 Meet At Your place
βŒ› Body Type Athletic
πŸ‘± Hair Colour What hair?!
🦡 Body hair Trimmed

Media comments
5:25 am Tuesday, 18th June, 2024

Hi there wanna turn me on

10:01 am Sunday, 3rd September, 2023

I can't wait to show you off. 😍