I’m a single mid thirties guy who is hoping to meet an adventurous and playful woman who considers herself submissive but is curious about exploring more dominant personality traits.
Although labels and being put into categories don't sit well with me, if pressed, I’d say I consider myself a switch with more dominant sides than submissive ones. Somehow, I envision my ideal playing partner to be the reverse of this, that is, having more submissive traits than dominant ones.
While I can’t say I’m very well-versed in the jargon of kinkiness, what continues to attract me and turn me on are the kinks of hotwiferyslutwifery , cuckoldry (although from a far less submissive approach than usually portrayed in porn and erotica, “daddygirl”.
Breaking it all down in attempt to pinpoint exactly what turns me on, I’ve come to find that it is the very process or losing control before regaining this very control through some act of dominance.
Being in a relationship with a woman who is somewhat on the wild side and perhaps even a bit promiscuous would provide plenty of opportunity to produce this very dynamic which I find so arousing.
I firmly believe that one’s path emerges as one walks it. In the world of kinks I believe this is perhaps even more true than elsewhere; new fantasies emerge when one last expects it and kinks one thought were a defining personality trait somehow die out.
As such, I realise that the fantasies I eventually end up realising with the woman I hope to encounter here probably won’t look exactly like the ones I have in my head at this very moment. After all, these fantasies are supposed to turn us both on in equal measure. Finding a common recipe is therefore crucial.
Awaiting the emergence of the intriguing Ms Right, I suppose all I can do is tell a little bit about the fantasies I hope to make part of my future:
I consider myself a very generous lover. It is not really something I consciously set out to be, but I have come to realise that the act of giving turns me on, perhaps even more so than receiving. In this context it is perhaps not surprising that my dominant traits prevail at the expense of my submissive ones - and that I like to share.
Sharing in one form or another is a recurrent theme in my fantasies. Usually these fantasies include an extra man rather than an additional woman. Put bluntly, I find it entirely intoxicating to lose the aforementioned control through having to watch or otherwise experience my partner having sex with someone else.
Sometimes these fantasies even include more than just one extra person. Sometimes I’m in the room where it all happens, sometimes I listen in over the phone. Other times I wait for her to come home and tell me all about it.
As mentioned, my fantasy world also include the very crucial element of recouping control. Typically, this involves my having dominant sex with her to prove to her where she belongs, punishing her to some extent or another for acting out and being unfaithful (if one can call it that).
Of course, playing rules of some kind would have to be agreed on. I am not looking for a girlfriend who would do entirely as she pleased, as this would diminish the dominant element that I’m seeking.
Even though I could go much more into detail, I believe it’s better to stop here before I write you into oblivion.
Sounds interesting? Or not your cup of tea? Act accordingly! Hoping to hear from you!
Seeking Couple, Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 42 | |
| Sexuality | Straight | |
| Location | Luxembourg, Luxembourg, Strassen | |
