Conflicted and confused. Finally acting on 20 years of desires I have repressed. No plan, No Idea what I'm doing, where I'm going and how I will know when I get there.

Swinger Grail (Male) from UK, Southampton

• A Relationship
• BDSM
• Beginner
• Bondage & Discipline
• Dom
• gags
• S&M
• Switch

I've spent most of my adult live haunted by images and fantasies I fear. I consider myself a humanitarian, a liberal, a compassinate human. By profession I'm in a care-giving role. In my personal life I tend to support and validate rather than lead. i am not naturally aggressive or competative. I have a lifelong twisted relationship with the Christianity I grew up with.But since puberty I've been aroused by images of women bound, chained, blindfolded, gagged. And by extension my instigation. I have always kept these urges and images in the locker. I did not want to deal with them. They did not sit well with the rest of my self image. Now I'm looking for answers...

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Grail Personal Details

Gender	Male
Age	46
Sexuality	Straight
Location	UK, England: Hampshire, Southampton