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Hi, I'm keen for actual meetings

Swinger cactusWellington (Male) from New Zealand, Johnsonville

i'm looking for fun experiences with other, similarly minded discreet people.

Keen to milk you - no emotional involvement necessary, just a mechanical act. i am seeking a selfish person who can supply quantities regularly. Simply put, I'm looking for guys who are looking for someone to receive them, take their volume.

Would also like to be in an exploitative relationship - i'm the one exploited. To me being submissive is about being psychologically manipulated, moulded, dominated and controlled for the benefit of the dominant. Into porn, sexual intensity and exploration of kinks. Curious about estim and having balls lightly smacked or bound.

Increasingly i think of myself as an 'oral bottom'. No reciprocation required or expected. Your release is more important. i'm looking for someone who can regularly meet and supply me with what i need. It is good if the one being serviced is 'bigger' than me, to enhance feelings of inferiority and submissiveness.

Either that, or i like very very small.

i wonder if there's someone in this small city who is keen to train and exploit another for their own pleasure? Maybe someone who can train me up for more.

i'm sensitive to the needs of those shy or inexperienced and aim to meet their needs, particularly sexual.

Anyone interested in helping me 'shave'?

A dominant attitude is not always necessary; an exploitative or fun attitude is.

In time, i could see a regular, committed relationship developing if desired. Discreet at first, then perhaps not...

Please DO NOT ASK for face pictures - I don't have any and I'm currently DISCREET.

Seeking Female, Male


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cactusWellington Personal Details
Gender Male
Age 56
Sexuality Bicurious
Location New Zealand, Wellington, Johnsonville
Ethnicity White / Caucasian
Body hair Natural
Drugs None
Travel Can accommodate, Will travel