Not looking for gang bangs, threesomes or outdoor fun, and not judging those who are. Just thought I would jot down a few thoughts and see what happens.
So, I'm married, no kids and bored out of my mind. How long does a 'vanilla' sex life have to go on before it's OK to consider ticking some of those boxes with someone else? How many times should one sit down and explain to one's spouse that you want more, before realising that a slow and unfulfilling emptiness is what my wife has decreed for me. Never strayed before - and haven't yet!
OK, I know, I sound like a spoiled child, but I'm working hard, trying hard, communicating hard - but not playing at all. If your wife never asks you if you're happy does that mean she assumes you are - or that she doesn't care if you are?
If she never asks "let's see what we can do to get another orgasm out of you!" does she assume one's enough for you? It's not, and she only has to ask. She’s the one that turns over and goes to sleep!
If my wife ever...
- wore stockings and suspenders
- finished that blow job 'properly'
- wore 'I'm so gonna get shagged' lipstick
- sat in that restaurant opposite me with no knickers on
- phoned me at work and said “I’m shaved and ready, get home now!”
- communicated with me in any way
- invited me to finger her now because she’s gagging to come
…then a second, third and fourth would be a very real possibility!
So whilst there are some WILD and interesting ladies on this site, I guess what I’m looking for is to share some of the above with a woman between 40 and 50 (though not ruling out other age groups). Someone who can talk about sex and work the mind rather than just get naked and someone who appreciates the efforts a man might make – and I really do enjoy making a lady feel good.
And y’know what? If sex never happened but I felt like I’d met a woman who enjoyed feeling sexy and making a good man feel the same way, and we enjoyed each others company, then maybe that’s all we’d need?
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 64 | |
| Location | UK, England: Berkshire, Reading | |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight | |
| 🌎 Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| 🚬 Smoke | No | |
| 🍷 Drink | Socially | |
| 💊 Drugs | No | |
| 🛡️ Safe Sex | Always | |
| 🏠 Meet At | Your place | |
| 📏 Height | 6ft 4in (193 cm) | |
| ⌛ Body Type | Average | |
| 👱 Hair Colour | Gray | |
| 🦵 Body hair | Trimmed | |
