Hi,
I'm not sure how best to capture your attention on here. I know you're out there, and I just hope you don't pass me by. I feel that I am at abit of a crossroads in my life right now in many ways. I feel as though I have to jump, but I'm not sure which way. Anyway more on that in time (maybe). Maybe I should test the water a bit. Honesty is usually the best course so here goes....
I've experienced very little bondage so far. There was one girl who opened my eyes to it, but we went our seperate ways. I'm not sure what to think of this dominant and submissive thing that people seem to keep alluding to on here. I enjoyed tying her up and I enjoyed being tied up by here. When I tied her up I got a thrill of being in control and being able to please her however I chose. When she tied me up I could just surrender and forget everything. I could feel not helpless, but that things were beyond my control, so that I could just surreneder to them and concentrate on the pleasure. As I say it wasn't (as I understand it) about being dominant or submissive. I also don't want to tie you up and cause you pain and make myself feel powerful. I don't enjoy causing pain to people, but I enjoy them surrendering to me, or I to them. What I would really like to find is someone who wants to find that comfortable, safe place to surrender. Someone who wants to learn not from me, but together with me. You could be more or less experienced than myself, older or younger. It doesn't matter.
So if I've not caught your attention yet then a little more about me may help. I'm not sure how to describe myself really. People (especially women) have called me 'rugged' in the past. I'm never really sure what they mean by that. It has cropped up more than once though. I like the outdoors, and I like them in all weathers. Luckily for me I am outside a lot for my job. I also like my own company. I'm a bit of a loner in the sense that I am very happy on my own, rather than the sense that I am lonely. I have undertaken solo expeditions where I havn't seen anyone else for weeks. I am always pleased to get back to civilization for some reasons though. I sail, windsurf and rock climb, so I am very experienced with knots and ropes (you have to be when your life depends upon them). If you're interested in what I look like, then I'm tall (6'1" or 6'2"), have dark hair and blue eyes. I'm also quite lean. One of my favourite non-active things is to curl up with a good book and totally lose myself in another world. The same is true of a good film. I always find that it's great to have someone to talk to about them though. I often ask people what their favorite book or film is and then go off and read or watch them. Anyway that's about it. I've just got to go and think of a title. ......... I hope you like what you read. If you don't then no matter, you're obviously not what I'm looking for. In that case I hope you find what you are after.
Take care.
Tom.
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 39 | |
| Location | UK, England: North Yorkshire, York | |
| π Sexuality | Straight | |
| π Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| π¬ Smoke | No | |
| π· Drink | Socially | |
| π Height | 6ft 2in (188 cm) | |
| β Body Type | Athletic | |
| π± Hair Colour | Dark Brown | |
| 𦡠Body hair | Natural | |
