I wish to re-explore those tingling hand sensations again and I am looking for someone special to share them. It’s now 25ish years since I last explored such secret desires. They were intense and exciting relationships. They have made my daydreams more enjoyable. The intervening vanilla years have been blissfully happy and faithful ones. However…..
This is going to sound like a middle aged man looking for a bit on the side. However in this arena you will be the main event as, due to illness, the ability to play out my desires with my better half no longer exists. It is a tough choice but I cannot face the idea that the rest of my life will be without intense physical contact but causing her distress is not an option.
I am married with grown up children. I am told I have a keen sense of humor and that I have a lovely smile that starts with my eyes. I scrub up well and look very good in a suit. I mix well with people and am a very physically fit, 6’+ tall, 49 (genuine) year old heterosexual male. I do not smoke, am clean shaven and thinning on top. I have a strong intuitive nature and large hands. However I think I am very average looking, and no one has tried to convince me otherwise! I have been told that I do not look 49! But this could just be flattery! I run my own business. I play sport regularly, I am well educated, very practical and I collect good erotic literature. I think I can cook but I probably not as well as I think. I live in a town under an hour north of London and I can travel widely. I can afford to engage in my passions with some style.- I have found a superb hotel in Oxford with thick walls!
I wish to enjoy the experience of slowly discovering how to realize these daydreams.
So do you like the sound of these daydreams?
You enter a luxuriously appointed and darkened room, immaculately prepared, and stand in a pool of soft light. I am sitting in a large chair and I compel you to slowly display yourself. Should you not do as you are told the consequences would become gradually more demanding. The rewards for obedience would also be proportional. I would not leave the chair until you complied with my instructions or the scene ended.
After a gentle spanking, just enough to make your bottom red, I would like to take you for a walk in a park with you naked but for shoes and a cape, closed at the front by only one clasp. With your hands held together behind you. Your complete loss of modesty could only be a click of a small catch away. At some stage it could be undone, it would be my decision. Not only would your modesty be compromised but those who saw you would know you had been spanked. A thorough and full spanking would follow.
You walk into an office, after a short interview you are presented with a form. It asks a long series of questions about your fantasy. It is multiple choice and goes into detail about your particular needs. It requires you to tick boxes, fill in your name, and sign. 5 minutes after you hand in the forms you are taken though to another room where your requirements are fulfilled. The detail of the scene and course of events is left to the interviewer.
I hope that this gives you some idea of what I would like us to get up to. However if you wanted a bratty teenager or wayward secretary then I am game for them too.
Our meetings would be mutually satisfying and emotionally involving, our relationship will hugely enjoyable and our meetings would always leave a longing for another. There must be space for smiles and laughter. A physical sexual element between may be desirable but not a pre requisite. Enacting the fantasies could be enough to satisfy the senses and charge the memories. I want our meetings to be the sort of things we remember with a secret smile.
It’s a long time since I behaved in this manner, I may be a little rusty but I was once fairly accomplished -my hand is a little harder now!. I think that being older and the reading has given me confidence and a greater degree of sensitivity and an enhanced awareness of sexuality.
I want you receive as much from the relationship as I. So we must be prepared to put as much thought and communication into the relationship as it needs to make it work. We should also have the common sense to pause if it is not right and stop if it seems wrong for the right reasons. It must not intrude unreasonably into our real lives and we should not allow ourselves to harm others. We must appreciate that our families’ feelings would be very hurt by knowledge of our relationship. It would remain a secret that makes people wonder why we are still smiling when they nail down the lid!
I would like you to be a genuine person who knows what they want. You look after yourself are well proportioned, well read and groomed. You are prepared to take a reasonable risk for a satisfying reward. You are probably no older than 39, understand your feelings and are prepared to articulate them. (I tell my staff I can read minds but it’s not always true) You are looking for someone who is prepared to listen to you and that will try to provide, with imagination, the special requirements that you need to realise your fantasies.
My desires have flexibility and although the ‘ask’ seems high I believe that the rewards could be higher I hope I have a lot to offer you. I am looking for someone very special to explore with and to learn to trust. I hope you are too. If my letter strikes a cord within you then please get in touch. Perhaps I can be ‘the someone’ special you seek?
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 68 | |
| Location | UK, England: Greater London, South Kensington | |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight | |
| 🌎 Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| 🚬 Smoke | No | |
| 🍷 Drink | Socially | |
| 💊 Drugs | No | |
| 🛡️ Safe Sex | Always | |
| 📏 Height | 6ft 3in (190 cm) | |
| ⌛ Body Type | Athletic | |
| 👱 Hair Colour | Dark Brown | |
| 🦵 Body hair | Trimmed | |
