I have done Vanilla at times in my past life but always find myself pulled back to elements of BDSM serving in a submissive role. Something about that dynamic alwas seems to draw me like a magnet.
There is a physical side to this. But as I've grown I realize that it's now much more mental to me. I have to submit with my mind first. To truly give myself completely to a dominant woman takes communication and listening. In order to understand my role, I need to understand her needs.
I'm not looking for a Barbie in leather. In fact, looks is not as important to me as attitude, by a long shot. I'm much more turned on by a woman who knows what she wants and demands it of me than an aesthetic fantasy. She doesn't have to be mean, just dominant.
Seeking Female
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Gender | Male | |
Age | 39 | |
Location | USA, California, Los Angeles | |
🌈 Sexuality | Straight |