I am new here. I have been in control, but as a “helper” (e. g. , teachercounsel or). My interest now is to explore the pleasures of being “helpless. ” I am decidedly heterosexual, educated (PhD), a sapiosexual.

Swinger Intheinterestofpleasure (Male) from USA, Durham

• BDSM
• Bondage & Discipline
• CBT
• Collaring
• Dungeon Parties
• Fetish
• Latex
• Roleplay
• Spanking / Whipping
• Sub

Magic, for me, only begins to emerge during conversation, usually in the context of food, drink. Whatever the conversation’s ostensible topics, explorations of power dynamics, consentdenial of consent, roles, rewards, and punishments are the conversation’s beating heart. Care for the fantasies that emerge between my partner and me as we talk, — not what I or we want but what the emerging fantasy wants, is what produces magic. My background is in theatre: the play’s the thing; play in that sense is what I love most. Finally, I find a sublime pleasure in partnering with someone who wants more than anything to play beautifully with me our parts in the fantasy given through our being together. To body forth beauty, whatever its form, is what makes my life worth living.

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Intheinterestofpleasure Personal Details

Gender	Male
Age	72
Sexuality	Straight
Location	USA, North Carolina, Durham

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