I am trying hard but I feel there are so many things out of my control and we have to go with the flow. I am the husband and primary point of contact, some what the instigator as my wife prefer to take the passenger seat. We are trying to have as much communication as possible, we are soft swap and dove in the LS 6 months ago, went to clubs only so far. It's been awesome at times and not great at others, our last 2 visits to 2 different clubs were not as sexy as wanted, on one of them it was very late and nobody playing in the back, we got frustrated and had to leave, last night went to another club that play is earlier but it was nothing but sausage fest, again no play.Even the podcasts we follow dried out.... I feel like I have to drive the conversation and start the play otherwise nothing happens, at same time I have to make sure that I am not being pushy with my loved one. It's so hard!!!! I thing I am ready to make better friend with benefits and a deeper connection with people.
Seeking Couple, Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 28 | |
| Location | UK, England: Essex, Colchester | |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight | |
