### Who the fuck are you?
Although heralding from the wilderness of the frozen North beyond the wall, I've travelled the length and breadth of the UK with relatively few casualties in my wake.
I'm friendly, gregarious, approachable, open-minded, tolerant, analytical and deep-thinking. A self-confessed sapiosexual and - as the name would suggest - a respectful chap.
I am neither a sycophant nor a hypocrite. I am not a fair weather friend. I will speak up if I see something I disagree with. I prefer to leave conflict as the last option, believing diplomacy and communication are the best ways to resolve a conflict, but am not afraid of a fight.
At my worst, I can be arrogant, prideful, bull-headed and dismissive of others. I am aware of these flaws and I endeavour to keep them in check.
At my best, I am selfless, considerate, kind-hearted, thoughtful, protective and altruistic.
I am always honourable, stoic, contemplative, reserved and respectful to those who earn and deserve it.
### So I hear you're kinky hmmm?
I am heterosexual, and wouldn't be interested in any sexual relations with any members of the same sex. A shame really, those bi folk get all the fun! Although I wouldn't have sexual contact with a man, I wouldn't be adverse to non-sexual play.
In relation to sex, I am almost entirely dominant, but outside of sex, I want equality. As it happens, I'm a self-proclaimed feminist. I believe completely in gender equality and I would never be comfortable being involved with someone who felt they weren't my equal, based on gender. As I mentioned above, I'm sapiosexual. The thing I find most attractive in a member of the opposite sex isn't their bra size or the length of their legs; I'm more of a prefrontal cortex kinda guy.
I'm a sexually monogamous person. The whole polyamory (or polyfuckery) doesn't add up in my head. I'm not a particularly jealous or possessive person generally, but I like my partner to be mine and mine alone. I am open to have multiple non-sexual play partners, assuming there are no romantic entanglements.
#### So what are my kinks?
Ultra violence.
Body to Body impact. (Yup, this means punching among other things. )
Brutal physical beat downs.
Pressure point play.
Wrestling and take downs.
Needle play.
Heavy impact.
Single tails.
Fear Play.
Breath play.
Water bondage.
### What brings you to this site?
After my relationship of eight years ended, I came here looking for like-minded people. Central to my understanding of BDSM has always been a bedrock of honesty, honour, integrity and mutual respect. It's a shame the community is not based upon such firm foundations.
Along the way, though, I've met some amazing people and shared with them some wonderful experiences, and have achieved a lot of things I am proud to have been a part of.
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Has Blog: Sadistic, primal, Dom looking for partner in crime.
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 41 | |
| Location | UK, Scotland: Glasgow, Glasgow | |
| ๐ Sexuality | Straight | |
| ๐ Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| ๐ฌ Smoke | No | |
| ๐ท Drink | Socially | |
| ๐ Drugs | No | |
| ๐ Height | 5ft 7in (170 cm) | |
| ๐ฑ Hair Colour | Light Brown | |
