I am 46year old gentleman, articulate and educated. I have always had a dominant nature and the need to be in control, I have held many management positions in my career, and have always found being in control addictive. Over the years I have developed my passion for control in to a desire to spank and administer correction. As in my professional life I am never harsh or brutal, always firm but fair it’s much more about the actual act of submission I find so utterly delightful. For me, I think it is never actually about the strike of the hand, crop or whip. It’s the anticipation, the knowing it’s coming but unable to stop it, the sense of fear in the waiting that makes the actual strike a relief.
I have never read 50 shades and have no interest too; I do not like to role-play. For me it’s not real submission if you’re pretending to be someone, I want you to be you and to enjoy it as you. I totally respect people’s limits and their expectations. I don’t enjoy humiliation, severe pain or mind games.
I do however have a particular fetish for riding wear, Jodhpurs and riding boots, I have a very interesting collection of riding crops and whips. I am more than willing to supply jodhpurs for any willing submissive. I love using a riding crop; I have so much control in the action of spanking, short sharp stings without hurting too much or leaving severe permanent marks, defiantly the pleasure in the pain.
Though it would be a lie to say there is no sexual element to control and spanking, Sex is not my primary intention, and I would never expect this of a willing submissive. I am not looking for rushed or immediate meets, I am happy to talk and create a little trust, establish what could be expected and limits.
I would be willing to engage with anyone and talk about my ideas, their ideas and go from there.
Seeking CD / Trans, Couple, Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 55 | |
| Location | UK, England: Somerset, Yeovil | |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight | |
| 🌎 Ethnicity | White / Caucasian | |
| 🚬 Smoke | No | |
| 🍷 Drink | Socially | |
| 💊 Drugs | No | |
| 🛡️ Safe Sex | Always | |
| 🏠 Meet At | Your place | |
| 📏 Height | 5ft 9in (175 cm) | |
| ⌛ Body Type | Average | |
| 👱 Hair Colour | Dark Brown | |
| 🦵 Body hair | Natural | |
