I am an African American Dominant with 12 years RL experience looking for submissive females (married or single).
I am experienced in training submissives and enjoy CONTROL as well as Bondage, Torture, Disipline and most everything else. I do respct limits and enjoy getting a submissive to open herself up to me, revealing ALL that is within her.
Update: I am still seeking and wish to find one that wishes to learn and share. I especially enjoy the mental aspects of Ds, getting into a sub's mind, helping her learn about herself and her submission, to help her accept it and herself, and to enbrace what and who she truly is.
I am here looking for friends and submissives to enlarge my circle of friends. I am easy going but that does not mean I can't take charge. In fact I can doso very well as control is one thing I enjoy a great deal. I like to laugh and enjoy telling jokes and teasing others (but not in a demeaning way). I enjoy music, prefering jazz, but also like the spectrum from oldies and CountryWestern and classical.
As far as a memorable scene there are to many to mention here. But one of the elements that is always involved is my love of intensity and becoming a part of the sub when she gets to that place where nothing exists except her and I.. When she is literally open to anything I wish, want or desire. It is there I wish to take a sub, to that thing that has been called sub-space.
As far as pet peeves are concerned my only one is insincerity. The thing that ticks me off is when a sub does not try. And as far as anger is concerned, it has no place in Ds. A Dominant is supposed to be in control and as such he needs to always be aware of his emotions and should head things off BEFORE he gets angry. I am not saying that I am perfect and that I never get angry, but most of the time I do head things off before they get to that point. When I do get angry I tend to get quiet.
And as far as 'deal breakers' are concened again is is insincerity. I have one expectation of a sub and it is that she do her best. I am for real and I expect her to be. This does not mean that she has to always succeed in what she does for me, as I know that no one is perfect, I just wish to encourage her to put her best foot forward and to try her best.
Write me back as I enjoy chatting and getting to know others in the lifestyle who are close by.
Seeking Couple, Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 69 | |
| Location | USA, Illinois, Glendale Heights | |
| π Sexuality | Straight | |
| π Ethnicity | Black / African | |
| π¬ Smoke | No | |
| π· Drink | No | |
| π Drugs | No | |
| π‘οΈ Safe Sex | Always | |
| π Height | 6ft 1in (185 cm) | |
| β Body Type | A few extra pounds | |
| π± Hair Colour | Black | |
