Physically I am 5'10", slim, tidy, clean, and shaven headedclean shaven.
In a sub im not too concerned with outward demeanour but she must have a slave's heart (but not necessarily in the physical sense, i won't expect you to do my housework, unless its part of our dynamic), a deep, intelligent woman who knows what she has to offer and when she has been won over will be mine, and only mine, forever. In everyday life my sub may come from any walk of life, im not interested in wealth but I am a graduate and although i'm no rocket scientist I would expect my sub to be able to string a sentence together.
Essential to any relationship (with me) are certain non negotiable facets: honesty, loyalty, communication, reliability, mutual respect. There are others, but that's for later. From that list I consider communication to be one of the most important, it has to be regular, I am looking to give and receive commitment, I will give you the time you need and deserve, I expect the same in return.
I will be strict, and there will be rules, if you break those rules you will see a darker side of me. What I want and don't want: I don't want someone who I need to tell when to go to the toilet, I'll be expecting that you can do that all on your own. I don't want a doormat, I want someone who can equal me but of course will be the opposite side to me, you will be my sub side and I will be your Dom side.
I'm into using you "play" wise, you will normally be tied or cuffed or both, and I will do to you what I please (with the normal protocol observed of course). I like kinky sex. Although I can inflict pain I'm unlikely to "click" with someone who wants to be hurt to the point of self harm. I have a generous heart by nature and I am only looking to enhance, not reduce.
Ds for me is an equal relationship, if not it becomes "doormatism" or worse still, abuse. That's no good for anyone, neither you nor me. Only in an equal relationship can we grow together.
I understand that we are all searching for the same thing, happiness, however we may decide to define that.
First and foremeost we're human beings and although i'm not religious I firmly believe (in the biblical sense) that we should treat others how we would like to be treated ourself, so it goes without saying that just because someone is submissive doesn't mean that they don't deserve respect, similarly just because someone is Dom doesn't mean that they shouldn't be told when they're acting like an arse :-)
Seeking Female
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 62 | |
| Location | UK, England: Essex, Colchester | |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight | |
| 🚬 Smoke | No | |
| 🍷 Drink | Socially | |
| 💊 Drugs | No | |
| 📏 Height | 4ft 8in (142 cm) | |
| ⌛ Body Type | Slim | |
| 👱 Hair Colour | What hair?! | |
| 🦵 Body hair | Trimmed | |
