A glance is first then an intellectual, and energetic connection is what im seeking. Authentic, spiritual, easy going, sense of humor are all that have to click.

Passion is attractive. As passion comes from believing you’re
unusually good at something, being passionate is a very sincere way of
saying, “by the way, I’m awesome”.
Passion will persuade people to follow you. It will persuade people
to believe in you. But most importantly, passion will persuade yourself.
Passion is an emotion specifically intended to make you go crazy and
work your ass off at something because your brain believes it could rock
your world. That, like love, is a feeling worth fighting for.