I'm just here for fun and Frenchmen. Er, friendship. Er, no I was right the first time!
I'm a 42-year-old unmarried, non-smoking, mostly-vegetarian TG who identifies mostly female. I originally hail from Manchester, UK, but have been living in Redmond, just outside Seattle for the last 14 years. Its very nice but BO. RING! I shall leave it as an exercise for the reader to figure out the reason I came here. When you've figured it out, let me know because I'm wondering!!
I have been dressing all my life - the first time that I remember putting on an item of female clothing was at about age 4. At 6, I was wearing my mother's old stockings quite regularly, until my sister shopped me! I used to be extremely turned on by cross-dressing during puberty and my entire teenage years were given over to the pleasures of nylons and heels. By 16, I already had my own little wardrobe of undies. I never dated during my 'formative' years and in fact haven't dated much since! But when I do now, I only date guys.
After many years of self-recrimination and self-doubt, and thanks a whole lot to the Internet (why didn't it exist when I was 20, dammit!?), I am finally at peace with myself, as a transgendered person (I've seen a therapist, so I know! In America, its obligatory to see one..) I now think of myself pretty much as a woman. I like to dress to look good, and to impress others. I don't get any sexual thrill out of it myself. My look is variable, based on where I'm going or what I'm trying to achieve. The most common look for me while taking pics is classic 'cheesecake', i.e. lingerie, corsets, heels and stockings. I am always fully made-up when taking pics or going out.
I have quite a thriving online presence, going back to '98. And I do go out and occasionally meet people, although as I already intimated, the place I live leaves a lot to be desired from the social-life standpoint. So, I'm kind of starved for real-world interaction. I don't know any other TGs, and to be candid, I am not all that enthusiastic about meeting other TGs for purposes of fun, unless your idea of fun - like mine - is to go shopping or out to a bar for a glass of wine or 2 :-) I am very friendly when en femme though, even if that might not stretch all the way to coming back to my place for a nightcap! I am much more receptive to guys, especially professional types who are confident and worldly. I am really attracted to the type of guy who has made good choices in life. The reason is that it gives me a good impression about his decision-making and risk-avoidance, and usually puts me in a mood to want to have his babies.. (joking!)
I am a bit of an enigma in that being a Scorpio, I'm quite a bit of an extremist, but this takes strange forms. For instance, I'm quite an introverted person, but I'm also exhibitionistic. I'm virtually celibate (don't even ask!) but have a large desire for naughtiness. I love to go out (to 'straight' places ideally) but I'm quite a loner even though I'm gregarious when I meet someone (I really need to move back to UK!)
So, I mostly get my kicks online. But I'm always hoping to meet that certain special someone with whom I could form a trusting and committed relationship to ultimately go.. Well, ultimately what I'd like is to be able to indulge in no-holes-barred fun, safely in an unsafe way, if ya know whadda mean. But that's a way off..
While I love and admire convincing TGs and, of course, GGs, I'm not much use: I'm a total bottomsubpassive who couldn't top anyone to save my life. Such is my lot in life, but I've managed to get to a place where I can at least deal with it now. But I am very oralanal and passive.
As far as guys are concerned, I prefer 35-45 say (obviously, the limits shift depending on how long ago I wrote this andor how desperate I am :-)) and to answer that age-old, familiar question of "what sort of guy are you looking for?", the answer would be Rupert Everett. But a Rupert Everett who's a top and likes women. Or at the very least, guys who think they are women!
I have toyed with the idea of a sex-change. Sometimes I have even been very close to transitioning proper, but I doubt that I ever will, only because I could never be the woman that I want to be. To be close, I'd have to have started at age 15 when I first mentioned to anyone (my best friend at the time) that I had even considered it. But after so long and my body having been blighted by the ravages of age and testosterone, I would never pass for a woman. The best I could hope for is to pass as a transsexual, and quite often, that's good enough for me these days. I'm actually trying to be more of a realist, can you believe it?!
Lastly, but by no means leastly. In fact, quite possibly firstly: I have managed to get this far with my health intact (mainly as a result of virtual celibacy). I don't ever want to jeopardize that. While there are many, many extremely naughty things I'd love to do, I just don't because of the world in which we live in (huh? Wasnt' that one of Sir Paul's?) However, if I could ever get to a point with someone where risk was ruled out, then I'd just love to let go (I feel *so* cooped up!)
Thanks for reading my spiel, see you online!!!
Ciao,
Jeanette
Seeking CD / Trans
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| Gender | Male | |
| Age | 50 | |
| Location | USA, California, San Francisco | |
| 🌈 Sexuality | Straight | |
| 🛡️ Safe Sex | Always | |
| 🏠 Meet At | Your place | |
| 📏 Height | 6ft (183 cm) | |
| ⌛ Body Type | Athletic | |
| 🦵 Body hair | Shaved | |
