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Looking for female friends who can see how things go

Swinger Bella81 (CD / Trans) from UK, Bath

Hi I'm Transgender, looking to get to know people and see how things develop, I have a range of interest, films, music, reading, history. I do t see myself as a sissy or TV, I'm trying to be as convincingly female as possible and am on the road to surgery.

I'm submissive, but work as a manager so am not just a door mat for anyone, looking for someone who can be the ying to my yang or day to my night or whatever.

I've had two long lasting relationships that have both ended badly for me so would need anyone who is seriously interested in me to be gentle and honnest with me. I'm very emotionally needy and tactile so need to have someone who is happy for lots and lots of cuddles.

I have many different facets, which are a little too complicated to detail here but in general should things get to a bedroom state then I like to feel under someone else's control, and am into latex, bondage, spankings etc. However at the other end of the scale a part of me is very child like, which is where the cuddles really come in and like nothing more but to cuddle at bedtime and be read a story.

I can't seem to love people in pieces be tend to get a little bit more emotionally committed to someone than might be ideal and my generally limited relationship experience (along with nasty break ups, one recently) has not helped at all. I battle with depression and anxiety which have also both been issues in previous relationships.

Having given you the bad news, the more positive aspects are I'm very loving and affectionate, have a wide range of interests and consider myself to be a very caring person. I'm really hoping that there is the right someone for me out there somewhere and that we can find eachother

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Bella81 Personal Details
Gender Female
Age 43
Location UK, England: Somerset, Bath
🌈 Sexuality Gay
🌎 Ethnicity White / Caucasian
🚬 Smoke No
🍷 Drink Socially
πŸ’Š Drugs No
πŸ“ Height 6ft 1in (185 cm)
βŒ› Body Type A few extra pounds
πŸ‘± Hair Colour Red
πŸ’ Piercings I've got some