Swinging Boundaries

Everyone is so different, every couple is unique as is every individual swinger. But then, so are their boundaries on what constitutes innocent fun ‘meet-ups’ from ‘cheating’.

Lots of people struggle to contain themselves at the thought of their partner kissing someone else in the same room as them, let alone have sex with another. Does it count as cheating if they plan a meet without you included in it andor without your knowing? Some people find it really easy separating sex from emotions and are cool with their partners meeting up with others without them, does this sound like you?

Where do you draw your line?

RE:Swinging Boundaries

It all depends on what kind of agreement is in place. If I'm in any sort of a dedicated relationship and the agreement is we only play together, I'd consider cheating pretty much anything going behind my back. Separating love and sex is not a problem here, one of of us doing something sexual and then not telling to or hiding it from the other is crossing the line.