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Event dates: 16.06.2013, 17.06.2013, 18.06.2013, 19.06.2013, 20.06.2013, 21.06.2013, 22.06.2013, 23.06.2013, 24.06.2013, 25.06.2013, 26.06.2013, 27.06.2013, 28.06.2013, 29.06.2013, 30.06.2013, Dear Couples from Islamabad let us arrange a sex party anywhere in islamabad. Send us a message to decide the location.

Suggestion

I think it'd be a great initiative if we can get all decent couples together for a get together. I'd suggest once you have a list of all who are interested, send invites only to the ones who seem educated, decent, trustworthy & respectable, rather than having all sorts of people which may deter the decent ones from attending. Secondly, for starters, don't make it a sex party. Let everyone come and enjoy without reservations & obligations and let em go with the flow.

RE:Suggestion

Good idea . What about just a meet and greet thing , let people just feel the flow and also weed out the not suitable ones . Lets set a date and place can be agreed upon
decentcouple89

RE:RE:Suggestion

ya absolutely right. Well the final place is to be decided by us all. If u have a place to suggest than send through PMMail so that we may c which place will be the best. and the party will only be a get together so that all the couples may have introduction there and then they will be able to decide about next steps. Remember it will be a get together only. No sex party. So interested couples send the suggestions to our inbox. We also have some place in mind but looking for the best idea which Clicks.
decentcouple89

RE:RE:RE:Suggestion

Well the place is to be decided by understanding of all decent couples from IslamabadRwp.
decentcouple89

Further More

Good suggestion Zarlasht. Well to make sure that real educated couples take part in the this event. We shall examine every participant before sending the invitation. The invitation will be send only after 100% confirmation.

Place

We'd suggest either a cafe' or a secure home. Any suggestions?
imrand

RE:Place

Cafe should be nice

RE:RE:RE:RE:Suggestion

DinnerBARBQ arrangement would be better to just for light chit chat. instead of anyone's house some good restaurent will be more convienant to those who may be not feel easy to enter the personal place at very first meeting.

Place

BBQ is a nice suggestion by FDK27, though in restaurants you are bound with talking to whoever is seated close by only. So BBQ at an open space where one can walk around & mingle freely with others is preferable. For that a house with a big courtyard is ideal & secure as well, as I'm sure everyone will feel at ease once the initial introductions are through. I'd also suggest the get together be couples only as no one would like to bring their female counterpart to a place with too many Hyenas around :-)
decentcouple89

RE:Place

Good suggestions dear! so a Bar B Q at a courtyard or open place where there is no rush will be suitable. Ok dear couples all the couples requested to verify that they are couples the time and place will be send to there inboxes. so contact us to confirm that u r a couple so that we could send the place and time to your inbox.
decentcouple89

RE:RE:Place

Dear couples! We have decided to choose a farm house for this gathering. Any suggestions about a farm house?? or any couple having farm house send a message.
shexyee

RE:RE:RE:Place

we own a farm house

Farmhouse

Good to see it's all coming together now. Like they say, 'Where there's a Will, there's a Way' :-p
tobiasIslamabad

get together

dear couples,

it is very important to have a understanding with each other to be comfortable, I think a normal get together would be a very helpful,
omeranniee

RE:get together

hmmmm seems intresting .we also suggest a farm house
lahoricpl

hi

yes we also suggest some open place or farm house and ddq party what a great idea
lover69a

Hi

Well good to see some fun loving people getting together. Wish had a partner to be part of this event......

Wish all the couples great time and fun.
decentcouple89

RE:Hi

Dear couples! its now time suggest the day and time for this party. so that we could gather there.

RE:RE:Hi

Great to see that people here listen eachother suggestions and base their future planning with mutual understanding.. thats what the first basic step towards a good relationship... you people will definitly enjoy your gathering... I am single so i may not be allowed.. :P

Date & Time

Well unfortunately we are out of town & will be back around the first week of July so don't let us hold you back if you all decide on a date earlier than that. But to assist:
- We do suggest a weekend, Friday night or Saturday nights are best.
- As for time, 7 PM onwards is suitable.
- You may also wanna make ID tags for each couple with the name they use on AdultHub. It's a suggestion but it makes it easier to findknow couples you've communicated with on the Hub.
- Secondly, make it compulsory for all couples to place their mobiles in a secure place, away from the meeting area, so all couples feel at ease that their photos will not be taken. We can always exchange numbers & contact information on pieces of paper so all of us can easily let go of our mobiles for 2-3 hours of BBQ.
- And again, regrets to Singles, but they are most welcome if & when they are a couple.
herrol

RE:decentcouple89's Quick Meet

would you like to meet me
imrand

RE:Date & Time

How about Saturday 29, June. Meanwhile, fully endorse Zarlasht's comments,,,the lady's got gray matter
sunny179

RE:decentcouple89's Quick Meet

i have a plce save place behind faisal mosque my fathers farm house

^Sunny179

Thanks for the offer, but for now we'll all be more comfortable if the GT was hosted at a couple's place.
decentcouple89

Thanx to All couples

Dear Couples! We are thank full to all the couples for their suggestions. The selected couples will soon receive the invitations.

Looking forward for your best wishes and a very good and sophisticated gathering for fun.
serenesaggi13

RE:RE:Hi

v r a couple and bonafide couple which can be provided anyway u like

hi

it should be during this week as if we extend the time many fakes will join and we believe in it should be married couples only,no gf bf

Gf Bf

Agree with you there in principle 'CplIsb', however as much as we also want only married couples, the reason we have not emphasized 'no gfbf' is the practicality of scrutinizing whether a couple is married or gfbf.. unless everyone is required to bring some proof; CNIC, Nikahnama from NADRA or wedding pics etc, it will be hard sorting apples from oranges :-)

What would be more practical is a filtration process:

Firstly, once the list of all interested people is finalized, the list can be run through some known genuine couples; our hosts 'DecentCouple89', ourselves ('Zarlasht') and we'd recommend you ('CplIsb') as well (we can vouch you are a genuine couple). We believe by mutual deliberation we can sort most of the genuine couples from fake, vulgar, gfbf or single ones.

Secondly, the date, time & venue will be inboxed only to the couples we three couples have selected. This will ensure any uninvited guests don't turn up.

Thirdly, whether a couple is married or gfbf would depend on your better judgement. Once you chat with couples, ask a few select questions, you are bound to find out if they are married or not. If they are not, we can always ban them from all future invites.

What say you CplIsb & DecentCouple89?

Plz put up pics on your profile

We'd request all genuine couples to please put up some seclusive pics of both of you on your profile. We hope you understand this will only make the event more secure & trustable for you if we are better able to scrutinize the fakes from the genuine couples.
decentcouple89

Dear Couples!

We agree to 'Zarlasht' and 'cplisb'. So, all the couples are requested upload some of their couple pics otherwise will not be able to receive the invitations. So. All the couples wishing to attend this party are required to upload some of their couple pics which could prove that they are a real couple.

Thanx! Looking forward for quick replies.
Kamal53

meeting


Why not 6 th of July. thats before ramzan. may I humbly suggest u avoid your farm house for the first time... I speek for your security . lets keep it at a public place but one with full security . Once u have weeded out the hanger ons then you can certainly use your own place......
I suggest the Pindi Club. ( Now the Arty Mess ). big lawns and good bar b que . secure and yes public. I will host the event if you want . let the event be hassle free !
serenesaggi13

RE:meeting

I have got objection, why only 3 should decide about invitese? why cant one couple be asked to confirm whether v r a genuine one or a fake one? They should give us their email addy in confidence and we can confirm our married status but don't degrade us as liars or fraudulent people
imrand

RE:RE:meeting

For once Zar you have misfired,,,,kiddo how can the so called seclusive pictures vouch for the credibility of a couple...indeed most of the pics loaded by members are not genuine. I for one would not like to post any pic of my wife or me (in any form), simple because I dont find it romantic.
Now for the "filtration process", the best and the safest is keep the group small, invite three or four or even more couples you know best or can trust,,,ofcourse no singles or companions. While there is a need for such a forum to interact intellectually or even otherwise, wisdom has it that we should start gradually and then built upon it. So mates copulate but with care.

GT

..... This is Pak. Please dont GT at a private house or farm for the first time. Screen who u want first time round and get rid of people who dont fit in.

A club or such is the best. If its to be in Pindi i can help. Arty mess or old Pindi club. Great lawns BBq etc .

Listen to me I talk sence . I want to make this happen and have new and good friends . Its just a GT os why not where its in the open.

why not a working day in the evening ! and soon please

Questions addressed to us by serenesaggi13 & imrand

serenesaggi13: By 3 couples we never meant that you'll have to prove yourself a couple to each one of them. If any of the three couples has had a webchat with you, they can confirm you are a couple. So, while one couple may not know many others, with three couples there's a better chance one of them will know you & vouch for you. And please get this notion out of your mind that anyone is degrading you, we are only trying to filter the non-genuine ones for your sake, so you guys can have a safe & enjoyable time. We hope you understand.

imrand: My name is Zarlasht, not 'kiddo'. Now that we got that sorted out, coming to your query. The fact is, within the hub we have only so many ways to scrutinize somebody. One of them through the pics couples post. I agree anyone can post fake pics, but the object here is not really trying to find if they are a couple, rather the object is to try and judge what kind of people they are. I'm sure you'll agree a genuine couple will not fully expose their partner. Wouldn't a pic like that tell you something about the people behind that profile. Or someone with a too glamorous pic to swallow, wouldn't that tell you something. Chances are, that a person who puts up fake pics is a manipulator in real life too.
That aside, we do understand your personal apprehension in putting up pics and really, you don't have to. We can already vouch you are genuine, why else would we accept your friends request? I hope you understand, we don't fire duds :-)
We do agree with keeping the group small with people we know and the filtration is exactly meant to do that. We also believe in building the group gradually, so no arguments with that too. But really, thanks for the advice.

RE: Suggestion by CplIsb

Agreed, a secure Farmhouse should be best, provided one of the couple owns one. As far as verification through 'names', nowhere has anyone suggested that. Everyone can use pseudonym and if they wanna tell their actual names, that's their choice, nobody's asking for it.

Verification through cam chat is why we have three couples on the job instead of one. If DecentCouple89 were the only ones, they probably wouldn't know you, however we could vouch for you because we have had a chat with you. similarly you may know a lot of good couples that we don't & you can verify them.

We wouldn't go for hotels or cafe's ourselves or any place where you have to sit in one place because then you cannot mingle with others.

hi

great idea but we strongly recommend a public place for first time than we can get who is real cpl and who is not
serenesaggi13

RE:hi

I can arrange Islamabad club for u Zarlasht
serenesaggi13

RE:RE:hi

not for u but us all
decentcouple89

RE:Lets Go Ahead Now

Dates are 22june, 23june, 29june or 30june.
serenesaggi13

RE:RE:Lets Go Ahead Now

we will come zarlasht
imrand

RE:Questions addressed to us by serenesaggi13 & imrand

Zarlasht, you render me speechless.
serenesaggi13

RE:RE:Lets Go Ahead Now

plz keep in mind that someone called an informal meeting at marriot hotel at 8 pm few weeks back on this site , we both reached there at NADIA but nobody turned up so beware of fake callsinvitations too

Imrand, SereneSaggi13 & DecentCouple89

Imrand: We can live with a bit of sarcasm if that's the idea :-) However, we believe a lot can be interpreted through a person's writings and from what they put up on their profile. If you didn't believe in that, you wouldn't've changed your profile description for the better too :-)

SereneSaggi13: We saw that Marriot Hotel meet up too and later read in the posts that there was nobody there. It may not necessarily be a fake call coz sometimes the couples who invite are actually there to check the attendees and decide right there if they are physically compatible or not. That is one of the reasons we recommended putting up even censored pics of yourselves, especially before meetups, so both couples can decide if they also are physically attracted to each other or not.

DecentCouple89: Like we maintained from the start, we'll be back the first week of July. So don't let us spoil the fun, you guys go ahead. Evening of 29th in a relatively secluded park with a small group of select couples sounds great.
serenesaggi13

RE:Imrand, SereneSaggi13 & DecentCouple89

we will wait till ur arrival mates
serenesaggi13

hi

I don't believe that people turned up and left without meeting, nobody turned up, we were the only couple in sheesha hall café and not a bird flew except we had our feet there so I m sure it was a fake plan.
decentcouple89

RE:hi

Well dear serenesaggi13 it is a real call four couples are completely ready. There will be five if u liked to come and if zarlasht were in Islamabad then the party would have been of 6 couples but we'll mis u zarlasht. u will soon receive the invitation with time and place serenesaggi13. So, be there lets make first party with 5 couples. looking forward if some other couples got verified then the number will go upto 8 looking forward for three more couples if they got verified then it will be of 8 couples. It will be fun dear. So be ready.
decentcouple89

Thanx to All the couples

Now Heading towards final stages of this event. If you are a real couple and interested to attend this event but have'nt yet received the invitation then please verify your self by arranging a cam chat with either zarlasht, decentcouple89 or cplisb. You have only some hours to verify yourself.

Thanx.

RE:Place

after reading the various posts how are singles defined as hyenas??? have u ever met one or interacted with one... if you have you cant draw conclusion for every single one of them... no offence to anyone just my two cents

Hyenas

XPacPc1: Thanks for your 2 cents, here's the change: It's only a metaphor; as how Hyenas scavenge for food but never share their own. Nothing you should personally take to heart as we know you and you are better than that :-)

RE:Hyenas

XPacPc1: Thanks for your 2 cents, here's the change: It's only a metaphor; as how Hyenas scavenge for food but never share their own. Nothing you should personally take to heart as we know you and you are better than that :-)



Nothing like that zar not taking to heart in any way so its all good u guys have fun :-)

meeting

Any one intrested in a new meet up ? On tuesday the 2nd at 1930 hrs ( 730 pm) . Just make sure you are a cpl, There are no restrictions , no verifications , no naka namas, no ID cards ... It will be a public place and simple to get to . Any one intrested can leave a message here or on our page .


This event by these three selectors is more of a discrimation and hurts the good sence of many people , and thats no good !

meeting

July 2nd is the selected date and 730 ( 1930) hours id the time for those intrested .
unknown5010

RE:decentcouple89's Quick Meet

can i join??

karachi couples can join u or not??

karachi couples can join u or not??

Huma70001 meeting

The end objective by whoever takes the initiative is to get couples talking, so it's great to see you guys stepping it up a notch. Good Luck with that, hope it'll be a great evening.

Zar
decentcouple89

RE:Huma70001 meeting

Good dear! We are happy to see that the step taken by us is followed by you as have great time. We will like to share if we got surety that this get together will be decent and no one will misbehave there. And we are taking so much steps for couples sake. We are taking steps for everyone's safety so that everyone in the gathering feel free. If someone else in gathering misbehaves then none of the couples will take step to gather any where else in whole life. So, have a good time and try the event to be sophisticated and make it sure that none of the couples starts talking about the reality of gathering. Cause if any of the couples started quarrelling and told why the gathering is being arranged then all the couples will be embraced.
Thanx! and we didn't mean to hurt anyone but dear u better know many people use fake id's so, we are trying to washout fake id's so that every couple feels free in the gathering.
decentcouple89

Dear couples

Looking forward for more couples to be a part of the gathering.
serenesaggi13

RE:Dear couples

I agree to wot decentcouple89 wrote above, we must be on the cautious side as there might be infiltrators trying to torpedoe our efforts, we should invite only married couples

Security concerns

Yes I have thought a out that . The two couples who have shown real interest
Are being contacted on their cell phones .

Do check the the SMS on your cell today and tell me what is best !
awan4u

RE:decentcouple89's Quick Meet

thats good idea,but remember it should be only for couple
awan4u

hello

nice and attractive idea.but must be only for couples not a single.

RE:Security concerns

Yes I have thought a out that . The two couples who have shown real interestAre being contacted on their cell phones .Do check the the SMS on your cell today and tell me what is best !


So, what difference is it than between what you are doing and what DecentCouple89 were trying to do. I'm only pointing out since you complained about the three selectors. We should all be appreciating each other's efforts rather than criticizing them, that's the only way forward. Again, sincere wishes for your initiative.

RE:RE:Security concerns

We had a break the Ice meet and now 3 cpl are to meet on the 2nd . All are now certified so to say . Any one else wants tocome just send your cell number and I will tell u where and when

As it goes in UK

Luckily I have experience of joining such get togathers. In UK 90% of get togathers where more couples are invited to join in don't have much success however, where two or three couples meet they have better chances to be dating in future. I must say its not thst easy. Thats y some time cpls would like to take on an interested single lady and single guy for the lady with mutual consent as its more practical. Wishing u all the best. I am currently living in Bahria Town Phase 2 and shame i am single soo cant join in but if any cpl wana meet I am here for next 6 months
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decentcouple89

RE:As it goes in UK

Dear huma70001 many many Congratulations for your success. Best of luck for second meetup.
anwarPunjab

RE:decentcouple89's Quick Meet

thanks, for arrange the sex party,
yar agar koe Multan meen party ho to btana, i will join this party i am old member of this site
me 38 ashraf, height 5.8, dick 6.5 sy upar hy.
waiting ur reponse
khustoo

RE:RE:RE:Security concerns

Any fantacy for threesome??single male?