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Hi,

I know that there has been alot of messages recently about people not replying and so I thought is it the way I email people that doesn't sell us in a way that would interest people.
So i wondered if anyone could give me some advice on the sort of things that we shouldshouldn't put in an initial email to see if I can improve meeting chances as so far we haven't had a single successful reply from a lady.

Thanks in advance for any advice that I(hopefully) will receive

Leesax xx

Re: sending a message advice

This question seems to come up quite often, and there is no correct answer as different people will be looking for different things in an e-mail.

There are a few things that could be regarded as essential though.

1. Don't just copy paste your profile as an e-mail, it shows a lack of thought in your reply.
2. Don't be to long winded, this will put people off reading all of it.
3. Don't make your reply a one liner, again this shows a lack of effort.
4. Don't go into intricate detail about what you'd like to do, this generally ends up as a long e-mail which again probably won't be read.
5. Be honest, everybody hates liars!
6.Keep it factual.
7. Use a hook, you're selling yourself so try and add something that will make you stand out, remember, you're selling against everybody else that has sent an e-mail reply so make it good.

Now, whilst the above is by no way the be all and end all, it should give you some guidance.

Hope that helps a bit

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Re: sending a message advice

my messages are not getting to the intended people they say sent succsesfully but they are not getting there why is this many thanks

Re: sending a message advice

could be something in your profile sending yr message to the `mail from non matches` box