Any help for tgirl admirer?

Hi, I wondered if anyone could give me some advice about the best way to meet with cd'stgirls in the Anglia region? Prob is i'm non scene and like to keep my business to myself so clubs etc not really an option. Im bi and only date girls but would like to find a discrete cd for regular meets, but not sure how to go about it? Seems a bit shallow lol but i havent let out my bi side in ages and could do with some advice. Really TBH, i do not want more than sex although i see no reason why a long term friendship couldnt arise too with the right t-gal ;) Any tips on how to find someone? I've sent a few 'hellos' on here but figure you gals must get a 100 msgs a week, how do i stand out or what else can i do? Any advice much appreciated :)