New-boy looking to join in!

Hello everyone, I'm new to this swinging game, and would like to have some fun. Unfortunately everything seems geared up in such a way s to make it difficult for a single guy like me to join in! I am based in London, but more than willing to travel. I would like to know how to get an invite to a local swingers party, as I feel the best way to ease in to the scene would be to meet experienced people in a safe and fun envioroment. So, if you'd like to invite a novice along to your next event, and promise to look after me, let me know...xXx...