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Is there a demand for single guys on the swinging scene?

Looking to broaden my horizons i'm a young 30 year old guy, good looking (so they tell me lol) and have no idea what really goes on in the swinging scene. Call me stupid if you like but we all got to start somewhere. So would someone like to update me and tell me what its all about?

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If you read this, send me a private mail and I will try my best to answer all your questions cos I'm a nice happily married, heterosexual guy who likes to help anyone who asks and also have plenty of free time. I wrote an article about swinging, based on my 45 years of experience which I can send to you by email.
Jose

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Hi, I hope you dont mind me being cheeky, but im also new to this, and think I'd find your article very helpful!
Would you please send it, I'd be most grateful.
Thanks

Re: Never done this before and got some questions

Hi, I hope you dont mind me being cheeky, but i were also new to this, and think I'd find your article very helpful!
Would you please send it, I'd be most grateful.
Thanks

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Hi,
Can I also have more info also
I would so much like to know more. I am a newbe as well.
Thank you Lawrence

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do u have link ? maybe an admin can put it on sticky ?

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would love to read ur article ...

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any info please

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Hi

Could you please send me info to please!!

Many thanks

Petra

Re: Never done this before and got some questions

Hi, I hope you dont mind me being cheeky, but i were also new to this, and think I'd find your article very helpful!
Would you please send it, I'd be most grateful.
Thanks


Yep - Us too pleeeeez!!!!

XXX

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Hi I just joined and would also love to read your article, tried to mail you but I was not able to. I'd be very greatful if you could mail it to me , thanks in advance.

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Same here..
Just joined and could do with your article too. i could do with all the advice i need.
Many thanks in advance.
Big D

Never done this before and got some questions

Hi I'm a happily married man. We both love each other dearly and have a healthy sex life. I have a huge fantasy of watching my wife with another manmen. I have talked to her about the prospect and she finds the idea a real turn on, however,she seems nervous to take the next step and fears that it could ruin our relationship.

Does anybody know how I can put her mind at ease?

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Hiya,

I felt exactly the same as your wife!! I think the thing is to chat it through and have little codes, whereby if either of you is not happy with the situation you can stop without the other being upset....and just reassure each other that, no matter how it goes, you'll take it as a laugh, and nothing too serious.

I was absolutely shit scared the first time, but luckily the guy was a really nice man.. Even now, years on, I get very nervous (tho have never called off!!!). So in the end, it's a case of taking the plunge, keeping an open mind and making sure you're both happy at every stage.

Hope this helps,

Helen xxx

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hi..i can see from the blogs thats lots are new to this and want someone to help them along the way...me too!!!!

please let me know how this works!!!

Knightslady x

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You'll be always new to swinging in a way...
It depends on the new situation, ur partner, the other people.
I was recently with a girfriend of mine who stays with her mother some weekends when she's not working, so we must find a place for fucking - usually in the nature or in an friend's erotic massage saloon. This guy is in the swinging scene from some time and it was his birthday, so we brought some wine with us to mark the event. They came from a short demonstrative motorcycle trip for his girl and when he entered our room he undressed completely, took a shower and came back naked - I was only in underware and my girlfriend dressed because she was not comfortable yet to stay nude in the others company. We drank some wine, my girlfriend looking for some music on the laptop, and suddenly the other girl get down on his friend and took his cock in her mouth. Her partner made me a sign to come too, but to me it seemed unfair to go to them and leave my girl alone, so I told her what's happening - she was lying on the matress, with her back turned to that scene, surfing on the net. We kissed, caressed, get undressed, 69'ed and finally I penetrated her. At this time the other couple came to our matress, she begin to kiss and caressed my girlfriend's breasts and to my surprise, my girl who never swingged before took the other male cock in her mouth very naturally. It was the most hot image in my life....

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and me please lol, would be a great help to another single newbie. thanks

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jose any change u send me the ins and outs new to scene

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This is all very well, but how do you get an invite to a swingers party, especially if you are a single guy, like myself?

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Hi, I`m also new to this and would like to know what a few abbreveations mean. Went in the hot tub and they were talking about "pm". Ialso would like to know what a male "vwe" is. Can you help me please.

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PM is private message, where no one else can see what you type

and VWE is very well endowed

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we too are new and would like more info.
What is soft swapping?
what is we?
A copy of the guide everyone is talking about would be good.

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weel I googled this and got 147,000 results. So question answered.

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Hi Jose , please can you help re etiquette ? cars wit hlights on , flashing headlights etc ,
thanks
maz

me and him want try ffm and havn't a clue

I'm 38 he is 41 we've talked for ages and want try a new experience

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Us too please.....

visiting tenerife in november anybody up for meet

Hi will be in tenerife los christianos from 30th oct to9th november any body interested married but play alone wife not interested