What do you consider your sexuality to be?

Sexuality

Hi Abbie hunni, I relate 100% with u, in male form, I'm as red blooded and hetro as the next guy, when Martina (Saf-fire) cums out to play, the cock-o-meter cannot be satisfied, I want to hold & feel hard cocks, get them in my mouth, face fucking me, as I lick, nibble & suck the sweet juice out & drink it down, I want to spit roasted, abused, used, gang banged, raped… I would love to be a sex toy for 56 couples to pleasure all of them as they see fit xximg src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons011.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons009.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons024.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons019.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons004.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons016.gif"

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the four of us should get together.

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I'm exactly the same!.
When dressed or thinking about dressing I only want cock but when "me" I have no desire for men.

I've struggled with this for years so its really good to hear the thoughts of others who feel the same....perhaps I'm not such a freak after all! Thanks girls!

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Hi, I'm totally with you as well, as a man working at the docks, I ogle and fanasise about women all day. When I'm home and dressed up, I dream of sucking and fucking cocks all night. There's so many feel the same, we must be normal!

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Its strange but true its only when in dressed mode I fantasise about being with a man I supose its all part of the trip or a lesbian experience with a fellow tv but rest of the time am happy with my life and wife its a funny old world

Sexuality

Hi all, Just like most of you as soon as I'm dressed all I can think about is cock & how soon I can get it inside me! But then if a fit guy walked past me when I'm not dressed I wouldn't really bat a (boring plain) eyelid, girls on the other hand I tend to think "wow she's hot, I want her shoes!" but I'm not sure if that's me being jealous or attracted.
I think my sexuality is intimately tied to my dressing as any sexual encounter that I have now would feel incomplete if I wasn't dressed. I do love eating girls out as well as sucking on a nice hard cock but I think that this is all part of my need to be submissive (looking up at someone knowing I'm giving them pleasure really gets me off)& that I do have an oral fixation which would also explain why I smoke! I think that as long as someone is accepting of me then I'm not worried what gender they are I'd just like to return the pleasure that they're giving me, which I guess makes me Bi but prefering guys if that makes sense?

Straight

Looks like I'm the odd one out then.
When I dress up, I'm just a guy dressed in women's clothes (I don't give myself a girls name or anything). I don't want to be a girl or have sexual encounters with guys.
What dressing up does do for me though is to make me more confident in myself and even though I have yet to actually do anything with that level of confidence (I joined this site to see if I could hook up with women who want to meet cross dressers). I know how when I'm dressed up around the house I strut around (I don't think it's just the posture from the high heels) and I have all sorts of fantasies about getting caught by women seeing me through the window and getting turned on by it and knocking on my door or just finding it funny and laughing at me.
None of my fantasies ever includes guys.

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send me a message and we'll see
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Yeah, you may be the odd one out in this forum, but your reaction to being dressed is no less(or more) valid than eveyone else's, is it? Just different from a (admittedly very small norm).
I'll quite often have no sexual inclination when dressed, towards either sex ( though not always!) just love being who I always was, am and I guess, will be.
I recurrent dreams when only a small boy, of being put into a bath, as a boy and coming out as a girl.
Also, I'd find myself, dressing in my stepmother's clothes(not just underwear!) when the house was empty,.
This was all before any sense of sexual awakening that came with my teens, just like anyone else.
Now, I'm happily bi-sexual, with a slight bias towards the girls,(maybe because I relate to them better?)
So, I'm not sure that it's purely a sexual thing, maybe our inclinations are more complicated than that!
Oh, and I think it's the shoes, honey, strutting is good and easy in a decent pair of Heels!!
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Excellent topic

Basically, I call myself bi, because I like all forms of sex. A rather crude definition, I would agree, but, like many others on this site, I am married, and cannot indulge my desire to dress. For that reason, I do not have the experience of dressing that others have. I have dabbled with lingerie but no further. I love the feeling of lingerie when I wear it, and have worn it to work many times under my male clothes. I don't get a change in my desires when I wear lingerie, but I am finding that my desire for hetero sex is in the background now (years without it in my marriage). I would never turn down sex with a woman, but I would not put myself out for it as much as I would for cock. And my desire for cock is changing too, in that although I have sucked a few in my time (thank you UK Bidates!) the femininity of CDTV is utterly compelling, and I am finding myself very strongly attracted to the femininity coupled with cock - perhaps that is really why I call myself Bi, I guess (I am working this out as I write). I know that if I got the opportunity, I would dress much more and learn how to make-up and I would search deeper for my real inner self - to be honest, I don't know if there is a feminine inner self, or if I am just a dirty old man, but I do find myself wishing sometimes that I was sexually a woman (a fantasy I have had since I was in my twenties). Like many others here, I wish I had not repressed my feelings when I was younger, but, of course, there were laws against that then. Plus, to be not heterosexual was definitely socially limiting in my environment at the time.
Thank you very much for this forum topic. It hasn't clarified anything for me personally, but it has given me the chance to put down something from within. This has given me a base to examine myself now - I am confused somewhat within me, but that is better for me than hiding something from myself, which is what was happening before.

Sorry if this all seems self indulgent and confusing, but writing it has definitely helped me.

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So, here's a slight diversion. If a guy is down as staright on his profiel, but sends a bi-curious message to a CDTV who is listed as bi- or bi-curious, why does he never get a reply? Surely hitting the 'thanks but no thanks' button is an option. Is it the label 'straight' that causes the problem?

I fully understand the question, and since my mailbox is never overfull, I can find time to reply to those "straight" people, and pose the question in my reply. However, many CDTV must receive dozens of emails a day and the 'thanks but no thanks' button is essential if their visit to the site is not to become just a mail answering exercise. I think maybe the answer lies in the site title - we are on a site called "UK Bi Dates" and that means that we have at least an element of Bi curiousity in us. Perhaps those who label themselves "straight" need time and help to find out where they stand. I look at the trails of profiles of my friends here and see that some look mostly at couples, some look mostly at females and so on. People simply finding themselves. Many of us here are finding ourselves, and it is a wonderful thing finding friends in the gloom of confusion.

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I love women to look at, but mostly as wishing I was them, I love watching porn particularly group, but again always wish I was the woman.

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I love women to look at, but mostly as wishing I was them, I love watching porn particularly group, but again always wish I was the woman.

I really enjoyed the way you express yourself. Wishing to be the woman as part of your view is awesome; wishing that you are part of the action, part the other girl's image, certain part wishing to have it. I too tend to feel that way.... I especially enjoyed PORN too. And as I watch... I wish the same way you do on all cases; especially wishing my cock is as big as them. Altogether, I just love the subject. Thanks for sharing your ideas; it also reflects mind! Thanks

What do you consider your sexuality to be?

Well I guess I am bi-sexual, but it's complicated.

In my male persona I only fancy real girls.
Although I'm attracted to TgirlsCDs and not men, I would only go with another Tgirl if I was dressed as well. So am I a cross-dressing straight guy lesbian? FIIK.

When I am in Tgirl mode I don't mind at all admirers looking, I just don't get turned-on by the idea of sex with them. However, I have very occasionally found one or two guys attractive enough that the thought did cross my mind.

Sex with a real girl when dressed? Mmmm, hell, why not (as long as she was comfortable with the idea)!

I did take the COGIATI transgender test and apparently I am as follows:

COGIATI classification THREE, ANDROGYNE What this means is that the Combined Gender Identity And Transsexuality Inventory has classified your internal gender identity to be essentially androgynous, both male and female at the same time, or possibly neither.

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There are many, many of us with exactly the same feelings and motivations. I don't know what 'normal' means but you are absolutely certainly not alone, as the many responses on this thread show. I would encourage you to try a few things and just find out what you enjoy.

I’ve always thought myself of being bi I was married for 26 years but the whole time we were married I wore my wife stuff she caught me once wearing her crotchless pantyhose and hi heels and that night she show me how a woman feels like when they have sex with a man she wore a strap on and I sucks on her cock until she was ready to fuck my ass-pussy I was hooked and doing that for about 6month I was drunk at a bar and she pick up a guy for me I was already in my crotchless pantyhose under my blue jeans we got home and she started on the guy and then she had me finish him orally and anally as she watched it was the best night of my life and it was great up to the time we got The big D and I though my life was over and about 2 years ago I run into that guy again and he asked me if I was still doing it and I said doing what and he said sucking and fucking and that’s when I understood that I’m a cross dresser and I love having sex with men so thanks to my ex wife for being me out of the closet and I’m happier for that though I would share that with who ever reads this 

OMG! I thought it was just me! I have been CD since a teen. I never wanted to be with a man nor craved one. I tried wearing lingerie in front of my ex once and it freaked her out and I got ****ared to ever try it again. I don't get turned on by men at all I want a woman and wish that's all I wanted but seem to get turned on out of nowhere by the idea of me dressing up and pleasing a man. I have done a lot of things with mysel****ut never able to meet up****oing so it never happens and I take it as a sign that I shouldn't but I can't keep fighting it anymore

Im a closet Cross dresser and when i dress up I fantasize about submitting to males and cross dressers but when im not dressed up and in my day to day, i dont feel any desire to even look at any man at all. I can also say that i love pussy so much, if i had been born a woman i would have become a lesbian. 

I love dressing up as a woman who is slutty I also want to suck cock and getting fucked deep in my mouth and asshole but I'm a little different from you people because I crave cocks  even when I'm not dressed up but I'm bisexual because I love eating pussy and then sucking cock lve been with guys and girls but the best time I ever had was getting fucked deep in my asshole by a black guy and I was eating black pussy I really love black guys have huge cocks and black girls have some huge pussies I love sucking and eating black guys and girls they are the best thing that ever happened to me except the time I got caught my wife I was eating her mom's pussy while her dad was fucking me up my asshole lol.  Boy was she upset until I caught her getting fistfucked and gangbanged by 20black guys  but I joined the group and helped her suck all that yummy cock and getting fucked with her best time of my life 

There's so many feel the same, we must be normal!
Why didn't I find this out years ago!!!!

Yeah, I think that its extemely limiting (and false) to think that men and women must fall into narrow binary categories. That just seems so boring.

Being trans and full time I consider myself a straight woman (with a slight accident in the plumbing department ??) and just adore eyeing up good looking guys in suits or smart casuals ??

As a male, I love pussy. Couldn't get enough most of my life. After giving my first bj about 24 years ago, I learned I also like sucking cock. But now that I have started dressing, I want it all the time. And it sounds like I am not as strange as I thought.