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Hello! I'm new in this forum and new in I don't know If I can call it swinging, my request is simple but I look for good answers because frankly I haven't found much on the internet.

My wife, a friend (female) and me are planning on a three way, this would be the first time for all of us so I want it to do it right so this is not a one time only, all party members are ok with it and looking forward to it, mi wife and the other girl have never had any lesbian experience before but they have fantasied about it in the past, so before the main event we are planning in getting together at our house to break the ice, I'm talking about between the two girls get them to start kissing, touching, etc... I mean I'm a dude and it's much more easy for me to break the ice with the third person, so first I'm focusing in breaking the ice between them.

For the ice breaking reunion I have planned play wii, spin the bottle type of games, get some buzz and pot to help relax the mod, I plan in not participating just watching, besides that I'm out of ideas what else could be fun and sexy to do.... so I could use some help here.. I;m I doing it right?

For how long should we meet to break the ice? when should I start to participate?

We have toys and stuff but I don't know if it would be to soon to bring them up...

And for the main event, any tips, rules, cool things to do, experience?

I really appreciate your comments, this is our first time and hoping not to be the last one.

Regards.

bump for answers?

bump? 3 people like this post but no answers or tips? I thought I was in the right place to ask this kind of things

leave the girls to it

having been where you are before I decided to go out for the night with some mates so my wife could get to know her "friend" alone rather than having me watching over and probably (being a guy) pushing them along

The women especially where its new to them will feel a lot more comfortable without a guy around trying to gently move things along ...then once they have had a few nights alone wait for your invite

1408 is right

leave them alone and they will find out best without you, whether or not it fits between the ladies.
it is hot to see them.... :-)

RE:leave the girls to it

Go out for the night and leave the girls to it. Tell them to phone you when they are ready!