dogging in hampshiresurreyw sussex

Are there any good, safe TV friendly dogging sites in hampshire, surrey or w. sussex area? I would like to go dressed and ready for action but am worried about being hassled if i chosse the wrong site, day of the week etc.. replies from anyone with knowledge or personal experience
of any particular area would be greatly appreciated.

I am also looking for a T-girl friend to accompany me on these late night adventures.