Need some help and advice for Threesome

I need a little advice,
Firstly my partner dosnt know about me being on this site or some of my desires, fantasies etc. He has told me of some of his fantasies, now to best explain this problem a little history is needed.

My partners best mate now lives a fair distance away, he comes to visit us once every couple of months, he is a confirmed bachelor, has a flat, will probably never settle down etc.
When his mate Jim comes to visit we usually go out for a few drinks and I usually leave the two of them to chat into the early hours after. Now about 2 years I got a little drunk at a New Years bash and the two of them had to help me to bed, that was the first time Jim saw my boobs in the flesh.

Then last summer when Jim was down visiting for the weekend, I came in from work and my back was killing me, Jim and my partner offered to massage me, both had had a couple of drinks. I accepted and relaxed having a glass or three as I got a full body massage. My Partner is not the patient type, his mate Jim is and he did great wonders for my back.

My partner suggested I turn over, he said I had had my fun, it was there turn. I was a little unsure at first but figured what the hell. Needless to say they both massaged my boobs, belly thighs etc, my partner was turned on I could tell, his mate jim was as well. When my partner went to get another bottle of wine, his mate Jim leaned down and kissed a nipple, I moved slightly felt up and he was hard beneath his jeans, I patted his cock and stroked him though his jeans. I had a vision of them both taking me, my partner walked back into the room when I was stroking Jims cock through his jeans, he looked a little pissed off so I stopped.
That night I was horny as hell, my partner only had to touch me and I was ready to come, the next morning as we lay in bed, he admitted he had been hugely turned on, however he had got really jealous when he saw me touching Jim, I consoled him, ensured he understood that I had been horny as well thanks to the both of them, but I would never have let anything happen unless he had wanted me to. He remarked that he had loved the idea of it, but seeing us like that had kinda ruined the idea of it.

Over the next 6 months we saw Jim twice, I was offered another massage, took it and nothing happened, another few months same thing. However last visit, my partner was flaunting me more or less, due to my weight loss, he asked me if I would like a massage, I agreed, mainly because Jim has good hands and is patient. Jim had bought with him a case of fairly strong Jacob Creek Asti. Both of them ensured my glass was never empty. I fell asleep during the massage, but woke to feel a finger brushing my pussy as my knickers had been pulled slightly to the side, I at first thought it was my partner then soon realised his mate was gently rubbing my pussy, I was laying face down, I was thinking that feels great, when I felt my partners hands on my legs. He was obviously encouraging his mate, I pretended I was still asleep, and for about a minute his mate was very gently rubbing me. Then all of a sudden he stopped. A few moments later, my partners hands slid up my thighs and his fingers slid inside the knickers, he had a little play but stopped fairly suddenly as well.

That night when we went to bed my partner pretty much came straight away. He was obviously as horny as hell, the whole thing left me very very horny, but I couldn’t do anything. I couldn’t raise the subject, because I had been asleep.

His mate is coming down this weekend, how the hell do I encourage my partner and his mate to actually just get on with it. What makes this slightly harder is that my partner is usually a very straight forward no nonsense guy when it comes to sex, he is not that imaginative it is clear to me he does like the idea of a threesome, but it also seems clear that he is scared by the idea.

I want to encourage this slightly more adventurous side to him, but I get the feeling this could have a negative effect on our relationship.

Any help or useful advice would be appreciated.

Manda

love to meet

hiya mandy im very local would love to meet up im in dunstable area mob-number on my profile if u like to txt or ring me hope to cht soon xxx

Jim

yes, What happened???

RE:Need some help and advice for Threesome

Just to let you know I had a fantastic weekend, my partner was a little different on Sunday night but we spent alot of time talking about what had occurred and both agreed it was extremely satisfying, enjoyable and would do it again. he has made it clear though, that he would only ever consider doing it with people he knows and could trust, so far that is limited to his best mate. LOL mind you he has now suggested it would be a good time for me to bring in one of my girl friends.

Think it will take a little while before i tell him about this site.

In some ways I do think it has opened up our relationship, we have talked more about our sexual desires, fantasies and wants in the last couple of weeks than we have in the last couple of years. This lead to a great evening Saturday and us both removing some inhibitions.

Thanks for replies and info, both on here and via message.

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I am glad it went well Mandy, it was interesting, hopefully I might be able to put my experience in later this year.

Drusilla