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hi

Can any one tell me why most people dont reply to emails? i actively send emails to cpls and ladies i like. i am genuine and always pleasent in my emails. But there seems to be a lack willing people on here to even reply ,when they place ads saying there want to be contacted for sex or just fun ... etc

Is it me???? or does any body else feel the same way?

thanks

ps ( i, ll get of my soap box now ) ;-))

Re: Response's or lack off

The simple answer, Blk4M, is that females and couples receive far too many responses to reply to all of them. They may start out by saying they will try to reply to everyone, or everyone that includes a photo, but when they are getting dozens of messages each day, many with the same sort of one-line response in them, it soon becomes tiring. In fact I would guess trying to sort the wheat from the chaff probably ends up putting some off from replying to anybody at all.

You only really stand a good chance of a reply if your message stands out in some way, if you are offering them something they haven't had and can't get elsewhere. There are other tricks to try and narrow down who is worth writing to and who isn't but I won't go into them here.

RE:Response's or lack off

come on then lets go 4 it

RE:Response's or lack off

hi Can any one tell me why most people dont reply to emails? i actively send emails to cpls and ladies i like. i am genuine and always pleasent in my emails. But there seems to be a lack willing people on here to even reply ,when they place ads saying there want to be contacted for sex or just fun ... etc Is it me???? or does any body else feel the same way? thanks ps ( i, ll get of my soap box now ) ;-))

RE:Response's or lack off

One thing I have noticed when guys send mails to me is...
They havent read my profile properly.Its obvious by their mail,or when I read their profile.I have stated in my profile what I'm looking for what I like and dont. A good deal of the time what I dont like or want is in the guys profile... Yet they still mail me..reason being they dont read all the profile in detail....

lack of response

try putting up a fake profile as a single woman looking for anything, no strings - include a nice pic - and see what kind of response you get then. you won't have to send any messages to others and you won't even have to upgrade.
Then you'll see what it's like on the other side of the fence.

Scotland

perhaps its your location, my young wife is very curious about trying big black cock but there are so few black males in scotland around the kinross area, no point contacting someone down south when a meet simply wouldnt happen.

hi all

hi all ive asked myself the same question many times , and thought of posting a profile of a young attractive woman just to see what would happen , the answer is go to swinging clubs or sex parties , but you have to put your hand in your pocket , on here its supposed to be free but alas as above you send out very pleasant e-mails and get no where google search lime light parties best ever have fun or keep typing lol

Keep a stiff upper.....

Looking at your profile BlkM4Cpls, you seem to be having more luck than me!

....and I do read the profile carefully, and consider what might appeal to the couple or lady in question before I send out a carefully constructed missive designed to appeal their distinctive tastes....."fancy a shag?"

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Its pretty common many just get inundated,some get cold feet, others just dont like you and some are total frauds.

To succeed here you must be prepared to accept rejection, read profiles carefully and work pretty hard because they are probably not going to throw themselves at you.

If you are persistent pleasant and select the right profiles you will eventually click, I can assure you it will be worth the effort cos there are some crackers here if you are patient.