12:47 pm Monday, 29th November, 2010
What are the top tips for meeting up with people & staying safe... whether as a man or a woman? |
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6:45 pm Saturday, 25th December, 2010
RE:How to Stay SafeAs a newbie would like to read other's advice.img src="imagesadultemoticons018.gif" |
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5:57 pm Sunday, 26th December, 2010
RE:RE:How to Stay SafeA lot of fairly obvious ones here but this is what i would advise . . . ALWAYS get a mobile phone number for the persons you are meeting. Make sure you speak to them on the phone before you meet and especially if they are a couple make sure you speak to both parties. If you can talk to them on cam online even better although a lot of people are not comfortable with doing this. I would also advise that before you actually set off on the day of the meet you ring them and talk to them to confirm the meet is going ahead . . . if they don't answer leave a message or text them to say you will expect a call back within 15mins. If you don't get a reply DON'T TRAVEL (i have been caught out on 2 occasions like this by timewasters).
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10:48 pm Tuesday, 28th December, 2010
RE:RE:RE:How to Stay Safesound advice. I have also asked a friend to call me on my mobile at a specific time, both giving me the security of knowing there is someone on hand if there should be a problem and giving me that all important 'get out' excuse if I need one. I have to say though that I never have and that most people I have met from this site have been very nice. It is also best to have the conversation about safe sex, what is acceptable and what is not before you meet as it may be more difficult to start laying down rules later. Take your own condoms as well in case they 'forget.' |
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7:48 pm Monday, 3rd January, 2011
staying safehi a newbie here very good advice given on the forum.I very much agree always let someone know where you are going, agree to ring at a certain time and trust your instincts. |
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2:57 am Tuesday, 4th January, 2011
RE:RE:RE:RE:How to Stay Safesome good advice there. |
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7:41 pm Wednesday, 9th March, 2011
Staying safe - prearranged callGinger52 has a sound idea. img src="imagesadultemoticons002.gif" I would never have thought of having a friend call you on your mobile at a prearranged time. Like Ginger52 says, having a ready made 'get out' excuse should you need one could be handy (hopefully not). |
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12:04 pm Thursday, 2nd June, 2011
safe?to stay absolutely safe, you should leave this platform and never think about any sexual adventures. |
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7:42 pm Monday, 6th June, 2011
RE:RE:RE:How to Stay SafeSome very sound advice here. From experience it pay's to chat online and text for a while before any meetings are arranged. Timewasters or those that bottle out (and there are many!!!)can usually be weeded out from their manner or what they suggest doing or where to meet. |